How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?

My friend asked me to the a dance and at the time i agreed to go with him just as friends but now he is under the impression that we are a couple and i don't know how to let him down easily. My friend Bella said she will do it for me but i don't think that it would be very fair to do that to him. Help please!!!!How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?
Hey.. i don't think that Bella should do this for you


I think that you should have a face to face conversation with him and try to figure out the whole situation without misunderstandings or altercations...


explain him that you are in a difficult situation because things aren't clear enough and you that you don't want this thing to happen (i mean the whole situation, the misunderstanding)


i hope he will appreciate your honesty and make an effort to solve this problem (with your impeccable and in the same time pleasant conduct)


i hope I've helped you... Good Luck..!!How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?
Bravo you for not allowing someone else to take responsibility for what you should do.





Simply tell him that although you agreed to go to the dance, and you will honor that (as you should), it doesn't change your relationship and you aren't a couple...just friends going to the dance. You hope he's okay with that as you appreciate his friendship and don't want that to change.
NEVER have someone else do this for you...NEVER!!


I don't understand why this guy would think you're a couple because you went to a dance with him. In any event, you must talk to him..but in a discreet way. Let him know that you like him; but that's as far as it goes. As for being a couple, you can ask him 'why' he felt this way, or why he assumed it.


Don't be nasty...don't be abrasive, but do it gently.