How do i break up with someone ?

we've been going out for a couple months now.


i moved out of the state in august


so it's kind of like a long distance relationship now.





we keep in touch on the phone


and online but things aren't really the


way they used to be.





we don't share a lot anymore and


that spark just isn't there.





but i do care about him.





i think just breaking up would be


best for us to move on with our


lives.





but i'm not really sure how to do it.


i know i wont be seeing him anytime soon..





any advice ?How do i break up with someone ?
Luckily you have a reason to break up, the distance, that isn't his fault, so he shouldn't be too hurt or surprised (compared to a regular break up). You can't really do much except just tell him. But emphasize that it isn't his fault and you're just breaking up with him because you can't see eachother, and say that you want to stay friends. Maybe say that you really wish it didn't have to be that way and that you wish you could still see him, but know it's impossible, or that you're so sad it couldn't work out, or whatever makes him feel better... In any case I think most people would break up in that situation. Chances are it's crossed his mind too, long distance relationships just aren't that much fun.How do i break up with someone ?
My advice is stay talking on the phone, but do start thinking about dating others.聽 Here's something that I wrote to another.....if you get up in the morning and not totally excited about seeing the person you are supposed to be IN love with, if your heart does not ache for that person when you are away from each other.....get out of that relationship NOW...don't waste your life or their's.聽


I have a blog that I post a lot of stuff about breaking up.聽 You can go to http://breakupterminator.com and read it.


But again, don't waste your life, it's way too short and precious!


Terri
Call him up then and make it known that you would rather do this in person but that you don't want to be with him anymore. Tell him honestly how you feel.
You say '; I break with thee, I break with thee, I break with thee'; and then you throw dog poop on their shoes.
WELL MRS. J. ITS NOT EASY. I FELT BAD TOO. SHE WAS MY NEIGHBOR. I COULDN/T LET HER DOWN. GOD HELPED US. GETTING ALONG. ASKED GOD TO HELP YOU.