me - ';something really sweet about you but I don't think we should be together anymore';
her - ';blah blah blah etc';
me - ';ok...well let's give it another shot';
which inevitably means that at the time of break up, it becomes about something big so the break up is bitter instead of amicable...
how can one do it in a nice way that definitely ends things, but for both parties to be ok with it...
thanksHow to best break up with someone?
just say i really care about you but i dont feel in love with you and this has been going on for a while. say you feel that you are too incompatable as boy friend girl friend. so it needs to end. your sorry you dont want to hurt them but this is the way it is.
then shell cry and whatever. shell ask question and stuff. say nothing. seriously. maybe just im sorry this is how i feel. but really. let her cry and rant. but dont give her hope. you already said your peice. and either you can leave or whatever but give no hope because women will hang on to the slightest sliver of hope.if you have anymore questions email me at skysmama77@yahoo.comHow to best break up with someone?
both parties can't be happy in this situation unless it is a joint decision.
the only way you can do it nicely is to tell her the truth and be honest do it in person and don't go back on what you have said if not you won't be getting anywhere your just be going backwards.
Stick to your guns and don't be an *** about it.
Well definitely DO NOT do it over the phone via text, or messaging pretty much do it in person. Just say I think you are an amazing girl but I don't things are going to work out well right now, but maybe we will meet up in the future!
IDK but use it or not =]
good luck with that though!
you should tell her you dont have the same feelings and you wanna end it now b4 it gets to the point where its a messy break up, she still important to you but u feel this relationship is doing no one good, u still wanna b friends but its just not working and its no ones fault, she's not losen you you relationship is just changing.
good luck
say
'; we had a good time together and now our time is over. I enjoyed it but now i think we both need to move. I still value your friendship but nothign more than that right now.'; That should do it. Being guilt tripped into staying with someone is never good. But leaving bitter and raw emotions is no better. Good luck!
Sometimes there is no way to do this, but it is better to be tactful, but honest. In the long run, even though they may not know it, this will work out the best. If they get mad or hurt, that is something that is sort of inevitable if they care, so you just have to let that happen. They will get over it...
Well,,
I'm afraid break ups are never, ever fun. :(
I prolly would be that girl, but what you would need to do is just tell her you care about her and you'll still be friends but you just need a break.
thats what he told me... it kinda makes it easier..
tell her if its ment to be, then eventually it will happen again.
:( its not fun, iknow.
well if she doesn't want to break up, it's not going to be okay with her, it's going to hurt her. but if you don't want to be with her it's better do break up with her sooner rather than later. grow some balls and just do it.
Just be honest and ';say it's not working out for us, we/you deserve someone that will Love and be there for all the way, Im just not that guy, sorry and I hope the best for you.';
step one: open your mouth
step two: let the words--were through--flow out of ur mouth
and then tell a reason why u break up
---or---
tell her we need to talk--and she'll know what that means---hopefully
x_x
Stick to the first ';me'; you listed. Whether they're okay with it is not something you can control.
Tell her your gay .
Just say ';It aint working for me'; after the blah blah blah part
if she doesn't wanna end it then shes not going to be ok with it. Theres no way really...tough
make the person you want to break up fall into someone elses hands and he/she will break up with u
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