Wednesday, August 18, 2010

How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?

In a relationship I'm not happy with. My boyfriend is nothing but an immature idiot boy, but he really loves me and I don't want to hurt him. I don't mind the whole hard-feelings thing, because we weren't really friends before we started dating. Also I have my eyes on someone else. Do I bring him up?


HEEEEELP!How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?
I wouldn't burn the bridge completely. Could be your perspective of him is not right and also you could raise him right! If he grows out of the Peter Pan stage enough to be responsible, you may learn to appreciate a man who is crazy in love with you. Some women's ';no'; is better than other women's ';yes';. Be that kind of woman when you say ';no';.How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?
If your opinion of your boyfriend is an immature idiot boy, then I think he will be fine and live to see another day. Just buy him an xbox game and slip out the back ';Jack';


Good Luck!


~Lil Joe Thomas

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just tell him the truth, he will get over it
You can't break up with someone and not break their heart if they truly love you. Just tell him you want to move on and grow and I would not bring up the other guy your interested in. He will find out for himself soon enough.
if this boy really likes you, his heart will be broken no matter what. even if he says its ok dont feel bad, im fine, ect. He still is hurt. But in time he will get over it so do what you have to do
It is impossible to break up with someone without breaking their heart. Just tell him that you are not happy anymore and you want the relationship to end
well i think sticky.fngrz is right leave out the other person and just break up with him. its gonna hurt, but you have to look out for you
just rip that band-aid off. you can't really break up with someone without hurting their feelings.
You can't break up with someone without hurting them. That's just the price of doing it. It should also suggest a certain social responsibility not to induce others to fall in love with you unless you have a fair chance of feeling the same way for this very reason.
to begin with if you don't want to hurt him do not bring up the other person just be honest and tell him that you do not share the same feelings and you need to stop before it goes any further but you still want to be friends.at least this is what i would do hope this Helps you Lot's of luck
that is the thing about breaking up, there is no nice way to do it, and you can't use the now famous line ';it's not you, it's me'; even if that is the case.





you just have to tell him the truth, tell him you are not happy, you feel that you should persuit happieness elswhere, and you would rather end it like this than to cheat on him etc.





that is IF you really want to bring the other guy into this right?





but you do owe him the truth, good luck!
Sorry, but there is no way to break up with someone without breaking their heart. Just break it to him gently. No matter what you may feel about him, he deserves that much.
Leave the other person that caught your eye out of it. But no matter what, your gonna hurt him because there's an emotional attachment to you. Good luck. Just be honest and sincere.
it's not your fault if they decide to be really upset about you breaking up with them. if you want to move on, the you should. and if they really love you, then they should be able to acept that.
Honesty I suppose, although dont mention the other guy, say you dont like they way he acts or w/e it is about him you dont like, to let him know why you want to end it
It is impossible to break up with someone and not hurt them. The best thing to do is be honest. Not to the point that you make him feel like an idiot because you think he is immature. Just tell him you do not have the feelings for him you used to, you have different interests and you have grown apart. I think it best not to mention the other guy. If he asks tell him there is no one, especially if you are not dating anyone else. That way you are honest with him. Do not tell him you have your eye on someone else, the first thing your friend will ask is '; who is he';.
if they truly care about you then you cant break up with them without at least hurting them badly if not breaking their heart but the sooner you get it over with the better

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