How to break up with someone you love....?

I love him so much i gave him everything, but ive caught him cheating on me and i cant do this anymore....im tired of hurting......i just dont know what to do, ive never broken up with anyone before. its so hard...How to break up with someone you love....?
You have to break up with him! It will be hard, especially since you love him. But he cheated on you, obviously he doesn't love you. You should be with someone who respects you and LOVES you. If he says he's sorry and he loves you he is a BIG FAT LIER and JERK! He is all that anyway.How to break up with someone you love....?
I am sorry to hear that, but you must understand that cheats are selfish people and only think of themselves.The people that do this never change unfortunately.If you love someone you could never do anything like that.


I think it is best you cut your losses and move on.The world still turns, and believe me there is someone out there for you that will appreciate you for the person you are.


To try to bring this person back into your life is wasted energy, and every time he is missing or late the brain starts to go over old ground.


Not worth it !
just tell it like it is! you are sick of the cheating and lies and you aren't someone he can mess around with feelings wise.

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How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?

My friend asked me to the a dance and at the time i agreed to go with him just as friends but now he is under the impression that we are a couple and i don't know how to let him down easily. My friend Bella said she will do it for me but i don't think that it would be very fair to do that to him. Help please!!!!How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?
Hey.. i don't think that Bella should do this for you


I think that you should have a face to face conversation with him and try to figure out the whole situation without misunderstandings or altercations...


explain him that you are in a difficult situation because things aren't clear enough and you that you don't want this thing to happen (i mean the whole situation, the misunderstanding)


i hope he will appreciate your honesty and make an effort to solve this problem (with your impeccable and in the same time pleasant conduct)


i hope I've helped you... Good Luck..!!How do i break up with someone without hurting their feelings?
Bravo you for not allowing someone else to take responsibility for what you should do.





Simply tell him that although you agreed to go to the dance, and you will honor that (as you should), it doesn't change your relationship and you aren't a couple...just friends going to the dance. You hope he's okay with that as you appreciate his friendship and don't want that to change.
NEVER have someone else do this for you...NEVER!!


I don't understand why this guy would think you're a couple because you went to a dance with him. In any event, you must talk to him..but in a discreet way. Let him know that you like him; but that's as far as it goes. As for being a couple, you can ask him 'why' he felt this way, or why he assumed it.


Don't be nasty...don't be abrasive, but do it gently.

How do you break up with someone?

howd you do it. i duno how to.How do you break up with someone?
';i've thought about it a lot and i think we should just stay friends, my feelings have changed.. i'm really sorry, i hope we can stay friends if u'd like';





i did it through email


i have no cell and we didnt talk much on the phone in the 1st place


and it was during summer so i would have to ask him to walk to my house and break up... i couldn't do that..

Sims 2 PC -- How do you break up with someone on the Sims if they are going steady?

I was able to irritate for a long time %26amp; my girl no longer has a ';crush'; on him, but how do i get them to officially break up?Sims 2 PC -- How do you break up with someone on the Sims if they are going steady?
If they are really mad at each other (or if at least one of them is furious with the other) you will get the option to break up.





There are two ways to do this... the fastest is to have one of them cheat in front of the other.





The other way is to just keep irritating, eventually you get the option to argue, shove, etc.. until you get the option to fight. Once they fight they will be furious with each other and can break up.Sims 2 PC -- How do you break up with someone on the Sims if they are going steady?
get them to be mad at each other then like fight; argue; slap him.... then you can break-up with him...








--OR--





you can go to the neighborhood then do ctrl+shift+C





then type in the cheat:





';boolProp TestingCheatsEnabled true';





then go to your family then make him selectable.... then drag his releationship bar all the way down, as well as hers then have one of them to break up when you click on the option...
When one becomes an adult they will break up since teens and adults can't go steady or have love relationships.

How to break up with someone you just dont like anymore?

i dont want to crush him or tear him into bits.. i just dont like him anymore. what should i sayHow to break up with someone you just dont like anymore?
Just do it.


Tell him you don't feel the same way anymore.


This stuff happens many times, and him getting sad after a break up is something you'll just have to deal with.





Good luck!How to break up with someone you just dont like anymore?
break it to him nicely and just tell him that you dont have the same feelings for him anymore. But make sure you dont say i still wanna be friends because that pisses of guys. Dont avoid him if you dont wanna hurt him. Just act how u normally would with one of your friends. GOOD LUCK xD
just say that the felling that you had for him just aren't really there anymore. hell get over it eventually


its better to be straight out with what you feel
straight forward tell him how you feel

Is okay to call after you break up with someone?

is it ok to call after i broke up with someone ( i just want to be able to say hi once in a while and see how hes doing maybe)? should i do it? if so how long should i wait before i do it (to give him time)? and how would u react if you were him???Is okay to call after you break up with someone?
if i was him.. i would never talk...





love should be pure.. there should not be any term and conditions








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How can I break up with someone I care about but can't trust?

He's done too many bad things to me.We have a newborn son together.The whole time I was pregnant all he did was talk to other girls.He claimed they were just ';friends';.I'm trying to stay with him for the babies sake.I don't think it's working out.We're both young.He's still in school.I'm home schooled.He says he has changed.I can't trust that he's not at school still doing wrong towards me.I just can't get over what he has done to me.How can I break up with someone I care about but can't trust?
Hey girl, I feel your pain. Been there... You don't need that extra stress, I mean, you got a newborn. If he;s ot willing to make changes etc then go ahead, leave him and let him know exactly why. Maybe then he'll realise how important you and baby are to him. If he doesn't change, then you just saved yourself a life of heartache. However, don't ever take baby away from him e.g let him visit and still be a father to baby no matter what your relationship is with him.How can I break up with someone I care about but can't trust?
If these other girls are 'just friends', then he'd have no problem with introducing them to you, would he!





He has changed! Okay, in what ways has he?





The words you might want to use are, ''I'm sorry, but although I care about you, you have abused my trust, and I no longer feel I can trust you, etc''.





I'm sorry, but all guys are not like him.





I hope this helps you in some small way.


Sash (a guy).
Im kind of going thro the same-thing i cant tell you that's the right or wrong thing to do but u should really have some time to yourself and think about it and then you would know what to do

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Whats the nicest way to break up with someone?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 14 months. In my mind we have grown apart and i like him more as a friend. how should i breakup with him???Whats the nicest way to break up with someone?
Im sorry but bye.Whats the nicest way to break up with someone?
Just tell him the way you feel, say you think you've grown apart, but you'd still like to be friends with him. Try explaining how you feel you've grown apart, no one deserves to be broken up with without an explanation.
honestly... he'll be hurt one way or another but the nicest way you can break up with him is to give him the decency of being honest and straightforward about this situation because you're partly responsible for it.
Tell him to make it easy for you. He will understand you if both of you still want to be good friends.
Tell him you are moving to Canada.

How to break up with someone you are just fooling around with?

I met this girl at this event that we both attend on a regular basis. We have fooled around a few times and I feel she is looking for more. I however am not that intrested and I don't know what to do. I want to stop attending the events but at same time I enjoy them. I am not sure what to tell her. I just don't feel it will work together and I want to break it off but I don't know how. I'm a nice guy and want to be niceHow to break up with someone you are just fooling around with?
Well be nice and just tell her that this is not working otu for you any longer and that you would really just like to end it beforte anyones feeling get hurt.How to break up with someone you are just fooling around with?
No Sweetie, you are not a nice guy... Nice guys don't get involved, play someone, %26amp; then want to walk away... We call guys like you ';PLAYERS';... And a player knows exactly how to handle this type of situation. So, please do not waste ppls time on here asking a question you already know the answer too...
Just say what I've said to some guys ';I thought we were just having fun.'; The only way is just tell her you don't want a relationship.
well, hhmm, lets c, well dont make them all sad and jus take it easy and take ur time, tell them its jus not working out between u guys and give them a hug and its over before u know it, it takes guts tho鈾モ櫏
Tell Her U Found Someone Else And You Just Want To Be Friends. If Your Too Scared To Say It Then Stop Messin With Her. Act Serious N When She Tryz To Make A Move Dont Show Emotion. Simple As That. Keep Going To Ur Events. Dont Let Something As Stupid As That Affect What You Like To Do. Good Luck.
Stop fooling around. When she brings it up... you are not ready for a committment, shes awesome and all... you just don't want to rush it. Don't stop going to the events, just be polite and smile. Compliment her, introduce her to other guys you know, when they start talking twith her slip away.
tell her that you met a girl, that you like that girl then ask her opinion about it. keep on telling her about the girl you met. that should give her the hints... and if she asks you about the 2 of you, tell her she's only like a friend to you. that should do the trick.

How do you break up with someone you never see?

Everyone knows that email, text, IM. All of those are a low- chicken's way- to break up with someone. But if you never see them in person (once a week maybe) and won't see them for 2 weeks at the time, how is the best way to break up with them?How do you break up with someone you never see?
I would prefer to break up during an actual conversation when you know they'll get the news right away, so through IMing, or a phone call. That to me is more personal then a text message or an email, where it'll just sit there until they find it.





Edit: I know what you mean about clingy. Remember to utilize ever blocking capability you have if he goes cuckoo.How do you break up with someone you never see?
Well maybe no one answers your questions due to your rude, blunt and prejudging manners. (';Piggish';...That ring a bell. lol)...But I'll be a gentleman and assume that it's possibly that ';time of the month'; for you and ignore your obvious bluntness and my question you answered and answer your question.





I honestly agree with the first answer. Why even bother. You have never even seen or met this person in person... But on the other hand, I can see why you would still consider doing it in a considerate way. I am the same way. Regardless of how long or well I knew the person or if I had ever seen or met the person, I would still want to end it by being honest with them. So all I can say is simply be nice while at the same time being honest. You don't want to hurt his/her feelings by simply not talking to them out of the blue. Trying doing it over the phone. Or since you've never met anyway, ending it by IM really wouldn't make a difference or look that bad either.
Phone, or wait until you see each other. My recent ex did in a way even I thought respectable. We last saw each other sunday june 28 and then we were both busy all the following week with work, and then she went away with family thurs-sun of july 4 weekend. she came over my house that following monday night and i had no reason to suspect anything was up. we laid on the couch and watched across the universe on tv. right after she sat up, and said something like ';ive been thinking.....'; and that started the conversation about ending it. very effortless and low-key.
Ew. Clingy is a major turn off. Just write a nice letter/e-mail. Explain as nicely as you can why that way there's no awkward pauses and stumbling of a phone call. If he continues to be super clingy, block him. best of luck to you.
i guess it deos matter in the relations ship:


fa seriouse realation ship or one that has been going on for along time i would say on the phone but if it is a little relationship just do over text but in a nice way
I guess the best thing to do is wait until you see them. P.S. Thanks you answered my question and it helped, Thanks
send him a letter


that would be a nice appropriate way


:)
over the phone
sounds like a waste of time to even be thinking of it.


What is there to ';break up';?
Yes!

What's the easiest way to break up with someone?

I've been dating a boy for the past month and a half and it is very awkward. It was just a mistake to go out with him but every time I try to let go, he holds on tighter. How can I break up with him with as little mess as possible?What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
Go through your reasons as to why you no longer wish to be with him. He will be upset for awhile, but it will pass. Better to end things now, and let both of you move on, than to delay this break up and get hurt even worse.What's the easiest way to break up with someone?
Hey SkdJFKDJ, Well i just don't think things are going to work out, but im sure you will find someone great to take care of you, i just can't fulfill this role. Something to the extent of that, quick, easy and honest
Be honest and quick. Tell him you are not interested in dating him anymore and that you are sorry but can't lie to him about it. It will hurt but it will be better than dragging it out (for you and for him). Good luck - I hate break-ups - they are hard!!
you can call him and tell him but i think if your gonna breakup with somebody do it 2 there face and tell them why its not working out
it's not easy.


try telling him that you feel like he is being controling and that you are no longer attracted to him. try that.
there's no easy way to break someone's heart my dear... no matter how you say it... it still has one meaning anyway... =)
juss tex him saying sry but iv gotta do this...i wanna break up w/ u please don't take it so hard thanx :-)
The simplest thing to do is,just tell him how you feel and what you want and get him out of your way!!





communication is the only key,its always better to talk it out and clear things!!
Don't beat around the bush, just tell him....a lil mess now is better than a hell of a mess later
Just say: look, you are a real nice guy, I am not for you though, I am sure there are lots of other girls that are. I know that I am not.I am sorry to offend you, but this is how I feel. It's over.





Try that and I guarantee you will get results.
tell them you realized you were not ready for a relationship
there is no easy way to dump him. Just be honest with him. Tell him exactly why you don't want to date him anymore. I've had girls break up with me before and not tell me why, it's worse than if I know the truth right away. Just break up with him and don't lead him on anymore, you're going to hurt him anyway.
Slowly step away..... don't do it too quick , if you don't want him to strangle you...... get busy and have less time for him...
Being honest with them is the easiet way. Don't keep him hanging.
A post-it note.
Just tell him straight out that you don't want to see him anymore. Make sure that you make it a clean break. No phone calls or notes or e-mails. Don't play games either just tell him the truth.
Say it to his face!!!!!!!!!


There's nothing worse than some jackasss that breaks up with you over e-mail or text.
Try telling him the truth... Sit down and have a heart to heart with him, tell him that you no longer wish to be in a relationship with him, and go over the whys, why you're not attracted to him and why the relationship is not going to work.etc... Leave the door open so that you can be friends. If he becomes aggressive call the authorities.
Simply tell him that although you think he's a nice person, the two of you are not a good dating/romantic match. Let him know you wish him well, and that you know there is someone out there who will dig him as much as he digs them.





It's not easy to break up...but doing it tactfully and personally is the right thing to do...





Best wishes that it goes as smoothly as possible...
You have to be honest with him. You can't worry about breaking his little heart, if you are not happy with someone let him know because if you are not honest he will continue to believe you both should be together.
tell him his johnson is too big for you and he should find a girl that could handle it
flirt wit other guy infront of him
i write a letter and give to him personally. in that way they don't interrupt and you get everything out that you wanted to say.
Have a reason, and make sure it makes sence, so they understand, or least know you have a good reason, or at least A reason
Pull him aside and talk. He Will understand.

What is the best way to break-up with someone?

Face to face,


over the phone,


etc...





How would you break-up with someone?What is the best way to break-up with someone?
Face to face is the only nice way. Then make sure you aren't getting mean by listing the reasons why you want to break up. Just say something like you have enjoyed being his girlfriend and now you want some space. Smile and say you think it's a good time for both of us to date other people. Then listen. Make sure you don't bad mouth him no matter what he says at the time to your friends. You never know when you two may get back together in the future.What is the best way to break-up with someone?
You cannot give someone an answer like face to face without knowing all the circumstances guys, it may get you 2 points but not help the person.


You decide, my dear. If you do it face to face do it in a public place that has SOME seclusion, but if you think he may get angry I would not do it face to face. That is how many young women get hurt.


Over the phone is o.k. and you can do it in a kind way without making him feel like a piece of crap.


Also, before you should break up with him you should write down on paper the pros and cons and then yo uwill know what to tell him when he asks you to not do it.


Be firm, nice and make sure there is finality to it. Do not be his friend, that is a recipe for disaster.


That is my life experience.


Good Luck,


Helper
well if u want to dump someone and still want him to respect you , then do it face to face and give the right reasons why r u doing it ! dont do it by the phone or a text msg or infront of people because its kind of insulting ,and embarrassing and it shows tht u never cared ! do it face to face eye to eye ;)
Just be like something like








(face to face this is )








i think im just not ready lets stay friends





or








ive just realized im a lesbian








that was just for comedy just be like im not rdy or crap or like w/e just make sure u do it eaaaaasy maybe cloud his mind with sex then drop it to him when hes happy (trust me sex is like medication for guys) then just drop the bomb and he would be like either pissed off or just be like :( but not pissed off
Face to face





The best is a public place, (NOT SCHOOL), a restaurant, someplace that is public, but nobody necessairly knows either of you. Come separately, (meet him there).





Tell him you care for him, but don't see a future for the two of you, you hope for the best for him, he's done nothing wrong........





LEAVE














Luck
NEVER break up with a guy over a text mesage or by calling him. DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM OVER THE PHONE. instead, do it in person. If you do it on the phone, thats just harsh and inconsiderate. The next time you see him, tell him how you really feel, you'll feel much better after he knows the truth. goodluck (:
Face-to-face is the only polite thing to do. If you think they might attack you or something, then the other two options are the most safe. I had a friend who dated a guy for a couple of years, then he broke up with her on the phone... it scarred her badly.
face to face for sure.





over the phone/ email/ txts. is just stupid and immature. if you can handle a relationship, then you can handle telling him/ her face to face that you don't have the same feelings for that person any more.





good luck.
face to face..it'll be hard..but it hurts less for that person..i mean, imagine someone breaking up with you over the phone or by IM or a text message...how would dat make u feel?


treat that person the way you wanna be treated.
not in person.





I think if you're on the phone they can convince you to change your mind.





As cold as it seems...email or letter is best. the written word is breakup king.
Probably face to face. I would explain to them that it's just not working out and it needs to end. I'm sure they would be upset and that's completely normal. Good luck!
Face 2 face defo





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It might seem hard, but face to face. You could tell the person that you are not ready to date quite yet, and might of started too early.
The right thing to do it is in person, you still should show respect to your





partner as an educated and well-mannered person.
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just say. i rlly like you alot..but i dont see us goin any more as just really good frends. im srry i that okay?
Face to face. Unless of course its a long distance relationship, then its phone to phone.
you: knock knock





bf: whose there?





you: its ah...





bf- its ah what?





you: its over!





hang up
definitely face to face


even though it'd be hard, that is the mature way to do it
definitly nott the fone more better face to face!!


so you can explain!! good luck
i always say in person,


but that's the hardest part.


so i'd still do it in person.
face to face
face to face
face to face
Face to Face. It is more hurtful over the phone.
face to face n tell him or her the exact reason dnt bluff...


its better to end up in a freindly way...
id say over the phone cause i wouldnt want someone to see me cry
Face to face.


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y are u breakin up w him

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How do you break up with someone really nicely?

I really need to break up with someone because I honestly could only ever think of him as a friend, and I like someone else, and I feel really guilty staying with him, and think he deserves someone that likes him back. What should I say?How do you break up with someone really nicely?
Tell him the truth. He will be hurt, but the sooner you do it the better it will be for him. It's very important that you do it in person if at all possible. That way you can give him a hug and tell him that you still care about him as a friend. After that, give him some space. He will come to you when he can handle being your friend again.

How do i break-up with someone?

Whatis the easiest way to break-up with a guy who really really likes you without hurting him so much?How do i break-up with someone?
Honestly there is no easy way. And it's gonna hurt him no matter what. Just be blunt and truthful, and tell him you wish him well and hope he finds someone special. Making up a bunch of stuff or telling him a bunch of cliche' crap is just gonna make him MORE pissed and hurt, not less.How do i break-up with someone?
There is no easy way because if he really, really likes you then his feelings will be hurt regardless of how nicely you break up with him. Just try to be honest because it sounds like you really are concerned with his feelings. Let him know that you don't want to hurt him but that you can no longer be with him because you don't feel the same way and in the long run you won't be happy and neither will he.
I always try to say that he is too good for me and I do not deserve him. But it never works because they start saying that they are not that good after all...





I suppose the best way is to be honest. If you do not love him anymore say so; with time he will understand that if there is no love there is no reason for a relationship.
thats tough and its never easy... but its best to do it face to face but go somewhere thats secluded and private, and just talk to him nice n easy. oh and seriously, dont say that 'it not you its me' or 'i like u as a friend' crap because he will never buy it.





just be honest with him and even though he might not like it he will accept it easier because your telling him the truth so he wont be left wondering why you broke up with him..





wish you best of luck!!
You tell him the truth!!


Just tell him that you think it would be much better, if you were friends!!


Let him know, that you really don't want to hurt his feelings, and that it is not because you want someone else, but that you feel like you would rather be good friends!!


Good luck to you!! Love, Agoodgirl_msjXOXO
breaking up is never easy. it's like trying to find an easy way to kill someone. the result is the same, he'll be heart broken no matter how gentle you are, especially if he still loves you. which brings me to a question i once asked; what exactly do women want from us. he loves you but you wanna leave him....why would you leave him in the first place?
I don't wish to continue the relationship with you. I've realised I only like you as a friend, but it took me a while to figure out my feelings. I'm sorry. Please don't be mad at me. It wouldn't be fair on you if I carried on letting you think everything was ok when its not.
The best way is to be honest with him, just sit him down and tell him straight that you dont want to be with him and why you feel like this. If he asks questions dont get angry just answer them truthfully to him, he will appreciate you more for this.
State ur original truthful reason,no lies.just say it to him nicely,like ask him 2 go out for a drink n tell him abt wat u think abt him really.be nice.dont be harsh.well just try n make him think positive and make him stay happy.good luck%26lt;3
No matter how hard you try,you'll still end up hurting him.
there is no easy way





tell him you're a guy lol





although that might hurt your reputation
just let him no the truth. prepare to see him angry and hurt though

How do you break up with someone in Spanish, mainly bc you don't want to be in a long distance relationship?

any extra phrases for other reasons to break up could help too! This guy is clingling to me, it was just a fling! (how do you say ';It was just a fling'; in spanish?). He doesn't speak much English.How do you break up with someone in Spanish, mainly bc you don't want to be in a long distance relationship?
Adios Amigo - goodbye my friend.How do you break up with someone in Spanish, mainly bc you don't want to be in a long distance relationship?
Spanish: ';Para ponerlo simplemente, yo no estoy listo para una relaci贸n de larga distancia con usted, porque nosotros no nos conocemos realmente muy bien. ser铆a injusto para ambos de nosotros tener que ser cometido a alguien nosotros sabemos apenas. ';





English: ';to put it simply, i am not ready for a long distance relationship with you, because we do not really know each other very well. it would be unfair for both of us to have to be committed to someone we barely know.';
It-o was-o an el fling-o.





Getto yourselfio lostio, Senor'!





Asta la Vista!
use Babelfish translator to say what you want to say.





http://www.babelfish.altavista.com/
Try these phrases:





I'm sorry, but I was only playing with your emotions in order to get what I wanted.





Lo siento, pero yo solamente estaba jugando con tus emociones para conseguir lo que yo quer铆a.








Now that I've manipulated and used you, I'm through with you. I never did really love you, no matter how I made it look.





Ya que te he manipulado y explotado, estoy terminada contigo. Realmente nunca te amaba, no obstante la forma en que yo hac铆a que aparentara de lo contrario.








I know I seemed serious, but this was all just a silly game. Surely you don't expect commitment, do you?





Yo s茅 que yo parec铆a seria, but esto no era nada m谩s que un juego necio. Seguro que no esperas un compromiso, 驴verdad?

Is it really bad to break up / someone on valentines day?

Man i feel really bad now cuz i broke up with my bf of 3 weeks today. Its just that ive known him my whole life n it just kept getting more awkward to be with him. He asked me out and i was just kinda pressured by my friends to say yes, and i just did. Now i feel really bad. How do i cope with this??? Cuz idk i couldve waited tomorrow but i just couldnt take this weird feeling anymore, he is like a bro to me!!! I dont wanna kiss my bro!!!Is it really bad to break up / someone on valentines day?
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I BROKE UP WITH SOMONE TO DAYIs it really bad to break up / someone on valentines day?
um yea that was a ***** move. thast why people hate valentines day. I hope u hate yourself

How do you break up with someone whose in love with you but you don't love them?

I've been dating this girl for 4 months and I've lost feelings for her. I've meet her parents and I told her I wasn't going to hurt her. She told me she never felt this way about a guy before and I just don't know how to tell her. I dont want to hurt her feelingsHow do you break up with someone whose in love with you but you don't love them?
The sooner you do it, the less it will hurt her. She might really like you, but its only been 4 months(not even half a year) and if youre already losing feelings for her its time to let go. It sucks having to hurt people's feelings but sometimes you have to. Tell her that its really hard for you to do this, but the longer you wait the more it will hurt, and you dont want to hurt her feelings anymore than you have to. No matter how you do it, she'll probably be really upset. Just try to let her down as easily as you can.How do you break up with someone whose in love with you but you don't love them?
I had the exact same problem as you, twice now.


After I broke up with the people, I was devistated and couldnt get over them. It hurt me so bad inside, and only recently did i tell one of them i still like him. thank the mooing giraffe he likes me back. but think about it. spend a night just pondering. Do you really have no feelings whatsoever for this girl. Tell her how incredibly sorry you are and how much you dont want to hurt her but you just dont feel anything. explain your self and do it in person. dont let her get the feeling you like someone else, even if you do. be gentle. good luck
just be honest with her,theres no way of avoiding the pain, you'll hurt her no matter what but if you don't tell her soon your going to hurt her more. just tell her your not ready or some thing like ';i dont love you as much as you love me, maybe we should slow down or go back to being friends for now. I'm not ready for a serious relationship and I dont want to hurt or mislead you.'; thats a pretty good way to end it with less hurt...
you will hurt her more if you still havin her but when she found out that you really fake your feelings for her that is much hurtful. Thats why really you need to tell her soon.
Let her go, it's more of a hurt and insult if you stay feeling like you do. Don't waste your time or hers.
Tell them the truth








Lying just makes things messy
You go to Bite The Bullet %26amp; tell her straight up. Waiting only make things worse
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How do you break up with someone, without shredding their heart?

My girlfriend and I are in a bit of a tight spot. I'm stuck over the ocean, we haven't met face to face. Somehow, it all kind of fell apart. She gave me the decision, and I do not want to hurt her again. I need some help.How do you break up with someone, without shredding their heart?
there's no way of breaking up with someone without breaking their heart. unless they have no heart.





just do your best, but you better do it soon, or else it'll become harder and harder to do.How do you break up with someone, without shredding their heart?
If you guys have never even met then I'm pretty sure you don't have to worry about her. You are far enough away that she should be able to get over you. And if she gave you the decision, that is sometimes saying that they don't want to be with you but don't want to say it first.
Sounds like you have two choices here. 1) Introduce her to somebody she will like more than you (in your case, probably not too hard). Or 2) Act like an asshole so she will want to dump you. That's always easy, and fun!
you have no heart ,shes waiting for you ,if u lost her , u lost more than 1 half of your life , you dont know yet , why not meet her and then decide ,
just walk away and never turn back one time.Just stay to your self don't call her or him to say sorry but I had to move on with my life.
retard there is no way to break with someone and not hurt them and u havent ,met her give her a chance
If you have not met, just let it alone. Cut off all contact.

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How do you decide whether to stay or break up with someone?

I think if you are thinking about it, that's your answer, you leave.





If things were happy you would stay, I know couples have arguments but if you come to the point where you are thinking, should I leave then its probably best to do that.How do you decide whether to stay or break up with someone?
if you are happy, and you love them, stay with them, if you dont break up. if you dont love them, where is the relationship goin to go ? and if your not happy, then definatly break up with them, you can be happy :)How do you decide whether to stay or break up with someone?
when there are more bad times than good. when being with them has become more of a habit rather than an enjoyment. when you only stay with them cuz you don't want to be alone.
you wouldn't even think about it if you wanted to be with them, so the fact you are thinking about it means you probably should
Do they make you happy, if not then break up.

How do you break someone up??

My friend is in a relationship with a guy that is a big loser. She is starting to become one as well.. she already has 2 kids by 2 different dads. My friend is talking about moving into this guys RV!!! Her sister and I know she is too stubborn to listen to us so we think it is best if we can get him to break up with her.. any ideas???How do you break someone up??
***Okay, people...I'm the sister!! READ THIS!! He's a big fat looser because he does drugs %26amp; brings them into my home, where I have a son. I've been supporting my sister for 8 months %26amp; now that this leech has come into her life I'm supporting him too. She's already lost custody of one child due to bad choices %26amp; my friend and I refuse to sit back %26amp; watch her loose her daughter too. We will intervene, we just need advise on how to go about it. Thanks.How do you break someone up??
I wouldn't break some one up. I think people should be allowed to make their own choices in life. and live with the consequences.





OK sister I understand your frustration and concern. Sorry to say I stand by my answer. Her actions actions more than his say that it is pointless to try. I guarantee you it will not do one bit of good. If she is as bad a mother as you say then for the sake of the child she needs to lose them. If you are allowing her boy friend to bring drugs into ';your home'; and you are ';supporting him'; that's your fault. It's called enabling. Fortunately, that you can do something about.
Leave her alone. If you do what you want to do, she'll resent you for messing up her life. Let her learn from her mistakes (if she REALLY is making one) and be there for her to help her pick up the pieces afterwards (without the I-told-you-so). Who knows?.....they may actually make it work
you just really try to scare him off the best way you know how like telling him lies about his girlfriend saying she's a maniac or schizophranic or something whatever works!
Let her learn on her own.
Depends. how long have you known her? and if you help her, will it offend her? id personally wanna know if i was messing up my life, but some people dont wanna know...mostly likely if shes come this far (having two kids w/two dads) shes gone too far.. have you talked to her about the first two goofs? if you have already, leave it alone, if not, say something. Gently. You could talk about how roomy RV's are and act like youre on her side, if she is totally set on this, and how RV's are a great investment, perhaps better than a house. lol.





most people dont wanna be judged. i prefer to just let people be b/c thats what will make them happy, not to mention all that energy spent on trying to convince people of something they will be shocked to believe, well. you see what i mean. its pointless, frustrating, and ive lost friends trying to save them from their stupid mistakes and lives. the only life you can control is your own.





i have this former friend who i thought i could be honest with, but apparently i cant, hes recently started freaking out when i tell him something ive noticed. its funny, he feels its okay for him to be a busybody but if i, as his f riend, say something about his life, he flips out. drama king, LOSER








well....reading Kristins response on here...........if you really want to intervene, you have to think before you attack, write a list of reasons hes a loser and how she could do better. you have to have a very strong convincing thing for her to follow b/c your friend sounds like a dumbbutt...
this is her life,let her be,she will open her eyes in due times
it's her life, all you can do is be by her side and be supportive. and PRAY for her!
Leave her alone. Why do you think he's a loser? Maybe she sees something in him that other's can't see. But anywho, it's her life, the only thing you could do is support her in her decisions in life, if you can't do that, then just accept the fact that she wants to be with this guy.

What are some easy ways to break up with someone?

especially if they claim their '; in love with you';. how can you do this without feeling terrible?What are some easy ways to break up with someone?
Be honest and diplomatic. If they say that they are in love with you, try to be nice about it.


I had to do it once and I simply told them that I just did not feel the same way they did. I explained that I thought he was a really nice guy, but I was just not feeling the same way and I did not want to waste any more of his time and let him know he needed to put his efforts into finding a person that would feel the same way about him.


Honesty is about the best way you can go....just remember since this person has feelings for you to try to be as kind as possible while being blunt about not having the same feelings for them. Do not lead her on and heaven forbid, do not use her for a booty call EVER, that would send the wrong signs to her.What are some easy ways to break up with someone?
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ok so you and your boyfriend/girlfriend had a good long run. you have grown apart, you have differences, or maybe you just found someone cuter. whatever the reason breaking up is NEVER easy. but there are ways to ease the pain.





method#1 Just do It! one of the hardest methods to execute, this way demands guts. i mean only a certain type of person can pull this off,often the shallow type. the JDI method can be done in the following ways:





the classic'; it's over';





i dont wanna be with you anymore





i think we should see other people





we just aren't made for eachother





cliche`? no its all in the execution. in order for the JDI way to work you must be assertive, abrupt, blunt and put simply, mean.Now, not all people will respond to this the same way. if you have a very needy or attached guy/girl JDI may cause them alot of pain and this method was not developed for the faint of heart. However guys/girls who are more cocky, dominant , or controlling,will need that firmness in order for them to get off your back.





method#2 The shpeel! the method that is really only appreciated when it is thought about PRIOR to being delivered. The more honest you are with the reasons you want to break up the easier this is to execute. Not all people will recieve this well especially if they are not really into ';feelings'; on the other hand there are those that will appreciate you taking the time to explain rather than just dumping them!





method#3 make them do it themselves! ok for you softies who just cant find it in your heart to break up with someone and you find yourself trapped in a relationship that you dont want be in. well the only way out now is through that same person! you know why they like you so ';un do'; that. I'm not saying to make yourself completely unattractive- I'm saying that you need to make them not like you anymore. Doing things like shrugging them off when they try to hug you or making snide comments when they says things. They will eventually get the hint and decide that you're not for them.











ultimately if you choose one of my methods or use your own remember: not all relationships are meant to last. The reasons most breakups are so hard is because of the terms they are ended on. ususally the ones that happen cuz of fights or disagreements are hardest because the focus is put on ';o maybe if we didnt fight then we would still be together'; when in reality the relationship was doomed from the start. so go out there and happy breaking up! ( lol)
Ok first of all, don't even think of pulling those ';Its not you, its me'; lines for Pete's sake. Unless there's really a valid reason, most likely you will feel bad.





Anyway, breaking up is a part of life. You should do it in person though, you're man enough to get into a relationship then you're man enough to say it in person.





Just say how you feel and why you are breaking up with her. Its hard I know, but in the end you'll feel better.
There is no easy way to break up with someone who is in love with you. They will feel hurt for a while no matter what.

How do i break up with someone who is also my best friend without affecting our friendhip?

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don not say we can still be friends way to cliche. try and make it sound like your mom is coming and she disaproves of your dating and you can say we can be friends ';in front of your mom'; so he thinks you are still dating hope this helps:-)

How do you break up with someone you really love?

We've been together for a long time, we always watch movies together %26amp; we've had a perfect relationship over all, I mean, he's broken up with me three times but always came back, he's lied %26amp; broke promises.. but, I forgave him. Here lately, he's been putting things before me, he's spending more time doing something else then with me, He tells me he's going to do something, %26amp; ends up doing another %26amp; it hurts, we dont watch movies anymore, %26amp; when he tells me he's going to sleep he always gets up %26amp; i feel like he's takin me for granted but I dont know how to break up with him or how to just tell him im unhappy I cry everynight. %26amp; I just cant keep doing this, someone help! - %26amp; no, he hasnt cheated on me, %26amp; he doesnt. -How do you break up with someone you really love?
Tell him everything that's bothering. You have to communicate. Don't let him walk all over you. As a last resort, use an ultimatum which you MUST keep or else he will never take you seriously.How do you break up with someone you really love?
Good for you!

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Ive been in your situation. My bf lied to me, smoked p*t behind my back, stole from me. And the thing was when we were together i loved being with him. We got a long and had a good time just sitting next to eachother talking or going fishn or styng up till three watching movies. And when i found out the truth about all these things it broke my heart, and I still took him back and stayed with him. But the thing is though after getting your heart broken so many times, eventually it gets to the point where theres not enough pieces left of it to break anymore. Sadly for some of us it takes it getting to that point before we are able to say enough is enough. Its going to be something that you are going to have to make your mind up and realize that you will be better off without him. You can't change him and if you stay then he's going to destroy who you are. and if he lies then there is no telling what he has done behind your back. But if you can tell yourself to get away from him. Get him completely away from you and start moving on.
just leave him a cd of ';big girls don't cry'; by fergie %26amp; clear out. he should get the picture. he he. nah- that's too mean.
Sit him down and tell him how you feel. Communication is key. Men aren't mind readers. If you never speak up for yourself, he has no way of knowing that you're bothered by what is happening.
maybe the thing is that he actually wants to brake up with you so he's showing you that he is not interested anymore, and maybe he is also the one who doesn't know how to brake up with you the 4th time or he might want to give you a chance to brake up with him.


if you feel that he doesn't care anymore just tell him, if he wants to end this so both of you will be comfortable again.
He came back because his sorry behind can't find anyone else with less self esteem to put up with him than you. I'm sorry that's harsh, but it's the truth. Grow some girl, and kick his triflin' butt to the curb. You can do bad all by yourself. When a man is into you, you will know, he calls and spends time with you because you are the most important thing to him.

When you break up with someone...How awkward is hanging around them ?

Well i broke up with this guy a year ago and we haven't talked, now i have a boyfriend... Now we are in the same team and he's talking to me in this flirty tone... I feel pretty awkward around him and i don't know how to be myself, when he told me he had a new girlfriend i was very mad even tho I now hate him and i have a boyfriend whom i love so much !! why i am mad ? how do i act around him ?When you break up with someone...How awkward is hanging around them ?
i know the feeling, thing is you feel like you want to crush the living daylights ot of him, you don't want him to find happiness after you broke his heart which is kinda selfish but you have to let it go When you break up with someone...How awkward is hanging around them ?
Tell your boyfriend that this ex-bf is bothering you and talk to him ! maybe he will stop ?
Tell your current boyfriend to take careof him... works every time.


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Is this a bad reason to break up with someone?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, and he says he loves me...but the feeling isn't mutual. I really want to be just friends with him but I want to avoid hurting his feelings at all costs. I enjoy the time we spend together, I just don't care for him romantically anymore. Also, if you can give tips on how to break it off smoothly I'd appreciate that.Is this a bad reason to break up with someone?
mostly same reason i just broke up with my boyfriend friend of a year and a couple months. i also felt like us saying i love you was out of habit. there's so much out there to see. i made it so the break up was mutual.





he wanted me to stay. and i wanted to go out and see what else is there.


and we discussed, he realized that he needed to go out and live his life more.





i hope this helps...to some extent at least.


and good luck.Is this a bad reason to break up with someone?
oky. so clearly, you want it overrr.


so yeah, that's a pretty good reason.


%26amp;%26amp; evn though it may hurt him


somtimes you have to move on.


just tellm him it was fun, but you


got to get to tha next chapter in yr


life.. %26amp;%26amp; you wanna be frannds.
no its not, that's what happened to me. he still liked me and my feelings had faded off for him. I told him we should just be friends, no more bf/gf stuff. I feel you girl! do what you gotta do
there is nothing you can do to let him down gently...especially if hes really into you, he will say anything you wan to stay with you.
I guess that's not a bad reason.

How do you break up with someone a day after Valentines Day?

I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months. I can tell that he is into other girls, and I know I'm into other guys. We're totally different and we never get to hang out outside of school, because of my dad. Today is Valentine's Day and I couldn't bring myself to break up with him today, but if I don't break up with him soon, things will get worse. And he'll be hurt more.How do you break up with someone a day after Valentines Day?
Just sit down with him and say hey look we need to talk. and explain to him that you have noticed him looking at other girls and so on and so forth and tell him that you think that you two should break up now before things get bad and that you can salvage a friendship out of the relationship.How do you break up with someone a day after Valentines Day?
I think the best thing to do would be to tell him those things you just told us.
Sounds like he may be thinking the same thing you are. or maybe he's not as thinking it's as serious as you are. I was in the same situation a few years ago. I opted to break up before Valentines day because I thought that the fact that we spent Valentines day together would mean that we were ';Serious'; which I wasn't. I just didn't want to lead her on.





But I would not do it on Feb 15th at 12:01 am, I'd wait til the next phone call, or whatever. Like i said.. if he's still looking around, he may not be so hurt... he may feel the saem.
Be honest with him and tell him how your feeling. Better to let go of the relationship now than to wait and cause more hurt to either of you in the long run. You'll end up resenting eachother. If you do it now, you can walk away with a friendship if nothing else.

How do you get the courage to break up with someone?

I really need to break up with my boyfriend because I feel like it is pointless to be going out with him when I know that he is not the one for me. He is involved with drugs which I don't think is right and we have different morals. I'm Christian and he's Athiest. We have been going out for 2 months now, but I have been thinking about breaking up with him for awhile. How do you get the courage to break up, and what do you say? (He is my first boyfriend).How do you get the courage to break up with someone?
By knowing the longer you wait the harder it will be on all parties concerned. That's how. Life is short and happiness is key. Do what you feel is best but never procrastinate.How do you get the courage to break up with someone?
You're very welcome. Best of luck to you.

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You're gonna have to do it sometime so don't wait till your suffering, just let it out gently, say something like ';I don't think we're working out, we just have different tastes, I wanna break up but I hope we can still be friends';
I know its hard but you have to be strong and do it..i dated a guy who was on the wrong side of the law..and its not worth it..


i broke up with a guy because we only saw each other about one hour a week! it was very hard..but it wasnt much of a relationship.

How can you break up with someone you love?

It needs to happen and it saddens me but i can't live with a few things that have happened. I know if you love them you should get over it but its not possible :( ive tried for a long time now. what would be the easiest on her? This is the WORST thing i've ever had to deal with and i've been to cancelers but i just won't help! sometime life just isn't fair :(How can you break up with someone you love?
She's a big fat liar, isn't she? Just break up with her already!How can you break up with someone you love?
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aww =[ i know how you feel





and yea, life can suck sometimes








if she has done something wrong, e.g. cheat on you, then just break up with her, she will know what she has done, if she doesnt know why, you need to explain why to her.





the best way to get over her is to stay far away from her and keep busy to keep your mind off things








truly sorry dude =[

How do you break up with someone you love?

I know he is no good for me!! i know intellectually! instinctively!, common sensely, but my emotions and good memories of him and his good qualities keep me making a fool of myself and going back to him. I am angry at myself for being so weak! help! thanksHow do you break up with someone you love?
It sounds that you really know that he is not the one for you. However it seems that perhaps what is keeping you from breaking up with him is the fear of being alone.





Just think that the longer you are with this person, the more you are going to suffer. Instead right now you could be single and having a chance of meeting someone who would really make you happy.





Don't be afraid of being alone. This will allow the right man to enter your life.How do you break up with someone you love?
You need to just break up with him. Tell him exactly why you are doing so, and then distance yourself from him. Do not talk to him until you are comfortable with just being friends, and until you do not feel love for him anymore.
Ive done this before it best to do it if you know its not going to work.
This one is easy - you just decide and break up. What would you do if you don't love somebody, you know he is no good for you, you know intellectually!, instinctively!, common sensely all that, but they will never leave you and only came to your life to hurt you the baddest?
I would just b like listen we can t do this any more and dont be sitting next to me in history cause u always frontin and yur butt smells like diarear all the time i bet he gonna get the hint reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeal fast like i told simon
tell the truth and be honest - tell him asap - theres no reason to string him along
Do you really think he's no good for you? Or are you afraid of what other people think? If there is a draw then something is obviously worth looking into.
If you know that he is not good for you and the two of you are not a good match then you are not really in love him with. Love is mutual respect and admiration ... do you respect him (no) do you admire him (I doubt it).





You just need to let yourself accept the truth and not feel guilty for wanting someone who is a better match. Once you accept that by breaking up with him you are not doing anything wrong you will be strong enough to move on.





Good Luck and just remember that just because someone is not a match for you does not mean they are bad, it just means that they are not a match :-)
Imagine, in 15 or 20 years, you have stayed in this relationship, and you have children. Your daughter, comes home with someone, and you just 'know' he's no good for your daughter, and it will end in heart ache.........What would you do?





The answer is, there is nothing you could do then. But right now, you can do what's right for you, and any kids you may ever have. You can find someone to love; someone who loves you as much as you love them. Someone who will adore your kids as much as you will.
I know that its going to hurt to let him go, but if hes no good for u, let him go. There is someone out there for u who is just right. It will be tough but what ever hurts u and u survive it, will make u stronger. Best of luck to u.
If you really love him, you'll love him enough to let him go.


Just remember people can change, but so can feelings. You should maybe have a break from one another, and see if you fall for anyone else.
Say ';We need to talk privatly'; he'll get the picture and that makes it easier :/ srry u hav to break up with him
one day, u will b no good anymore for him too !

Have you ever broken up with someone because you didn't want THEM to break up with YOU?

Just curious about how that went.





I am so terrified about getting screwed over and dumped on a whim like my last bf that I don't want it to happen again with this one.Have you ever broken up with someone because you didn't want THEM to break up with YOU?
HA. sounds exactly like my last relationship. i was getting ready to dumb my douche-bag over weight boyfriend but he beat me to the punch cuz he knew i was about to break things off. THEN! just wait...THENNN he goes around school telling everyone he broke up with ME because i wouldn't give him anything (sex). so i looked like the dumb one for awhile until i told everyone the truth and now he's the douche. just be careful what you do and if you break up, make sure it's for a reason besides he's about to break up with you. it hurts the other person and it also doesn't look that good on your behalf.





good luckHave you ever broken up with someone because you didn't want THEM to break up with YOU?
no but i havent broken up with anyone and nobody has broken up with me.


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no i haven't tried it.. cause when i feel that he don't want me no more I'll just ask him..why and did i do something wrong..





its a part of life that someone will leave you no matter how much you loved them..nothing is permanent
i completely understand where your coming from. i tried doing that to my boyfriend and we've been dating for almost six months. because i was scared he was going to hurt me. you are going to get hurt, i know you probably don't like that answer, but it's the truth. just take a chance and if it doesn't work out then move on.

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When you break up with someone you really love?

How did you restrain yourself from calling and texting them at least once in a while after or how were you able to actually let them go completely after everything you had?When you break up with someone you really love?
You will never let them go completely. If you really love someone, then that someone will always be on your mind. This is life and it's never easy. You just have to keep yourself preoccupied. Try to have as much fun as you can and just contact that someone once in awhile. Soon after you'll get used to it and then it won't hurt as much or the urge won't be as strong as before. It takes time though. It's a real pain but time is the only thing that can lessen your urge to call or text or just go after that person.When you break up with someone you really love?
I've never been in love, not even puppy love haha, i'm still fifteen and i've only ever had like 2 boyfriends, who have both been idiots.





But anyway :)





I've always been the shoulder to cry on when my friends break up with their bfs, so i think im pretty experienced!





I'm probably going against what everyone else is saying, but don't try and force yourself to get over him straight away, watch a few romantic films, listen to break up songs, and cry cry cry! get it all out of your system.





Let this go on for about 2 weeks, have one final cry and then vow not to think about him anymore, all the things he bought you throw away, delete his number, burn his clothes, whatever, just completely erase him from your life :)





And then find someone better, because you will, i promise :)





I'm really sorry to hear what happened, and best of luck!!


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Are you the breaker or the breakee?


If you broke up with him, it's just going to hurt him more knowing you still care.


If he broke up with you, it's just going to make him annoyed by texting him.


Either way, less contact is better till people's wounds have time to heal. Then later you could maybe be friends.
if you really love someone, why should you break up with him/her? if you break up, do it for good. Breaking up means, taking this person out of your life. The best thing is to leave him/her alone for a long while, and see how your feelings develop...
its tough...... its not easy the more it hurts the more u were really in love with them...... delete their number from your fone keep a copy somewhere if u really want and try not to think about it but just remember .





this too will pass





there are plenty more fish in the sea

I want to break up someone else marriage but how? I'm sleeping with the husband but that's not enough?

Why? Do you honestly think that the guy will stay with you if his marriage ends? If he's cheating on his wife with you, he will cheat on you too.I want to break up someone else marriage but how? I'm sleeping with the husband but that's not enough?
wow seriously?





Dont be that woman. Dont you have any selfrespect? Because he does not respect you at all. Also he most likely will never ever leave his wife. You are the other woman not THE woman in his life.





Find a single man! Dont disrespect his marriage or yourself this way. Also it is illegal for you to sleep with him.I want to break up someone else marriage but how? I'm sleeping with the husband but that's not enough?
no
I see that most people are putting all the blame on you but what everyone is failing to realize is that you don't have a commitment to his wife, he does therefore he's wrecking his own home. If his wife means anything to him he wouldn't be messing with you but at the same time it takes a certain type of woman to mess with someone elses husband. Do you ever sit back and think about the fact that when you're laying in your bed at night lonely,he's holding his wife in his arms? Do you every think about the fact that if he's forced to make a decision between you and her, you won't be the one he decides to be with? Does it ever cross your mind that you're someone that he doesn't want any one else to know about? Are you content with being something to do when it's convenient?
dont bother


get a new hobby
If it's not enough, then you know where you stand! Not good enough to be THE woman, only the other woman when it's convenient.
How dare you!!!
You need to ask yourself, ';I already slept with a married man, is that not enough to break it up?'; Also are you not being selfish? If he says he does not care about his wife ,ask your self, is he saying this to get a double deal? He has nothing to loose if he messes up his relationship,if........ you are still there after a long divorce.... chances are he will be devastated, and wont be the same hot target for you at that point. Depending on how long he was married etc. It could take years before he is really ready for a serious relationship. Don't fool your self and find a man who wont jack you up when he thinks the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. How would you like to be her? You could end up that way yourself.
Honey you are only gonna loose with that move. You need to stop messing with a married man, stop destroying a marriage and wrecking a family and go find a man that is single and free to be yours.





This is not gonna make this man come be with you. He is not going to leave his wife and he is not going to like it when you tell his wife that you exist. That is a secret and once it is out, you will be too. How angry do you think he is gonna be? How much trouble do you think this is going to bring him? Who's he gonna blame? YOU and it will be just what you deserve. Shame on you. Stop hurting people and hurting yourself with this relationship. End it
its not your body that you need to worry about, you should worry more about your brain. find something more interesting to ask or more entertaining. if this is the best you can do then your not very creative.
you're pathetic!! you have so much time on your hands that you have to break up a marriage? go learn something productive and give back to the community instead. all the other posts are right: you will get whats coming to you.
i cant stand girls like you!
If he really wants to be with you more than his wife, he'll break up his own marriage.
If he's got young kids who still live at home, then he will never leave his family for you because you will never be worth the time, trouble and heartache.
Guys don't tend to leave the wife. If he has been with you for a while (a year) he won't leave his secure situation. Even when the wife finds out, she will try to work it out generally.





Why not try to find someone single instead? I suggest this, because of the fact that someone who is fooling around with you and married to another is pretty much without character. Do you want to commit to someone who has no character, try to build a relationship, only to have them cheat on you, like they did before you got together?
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wow thats really messed up. that just shows that you have that low of a self esteem to go for a married man cause you cant get a single one for your self and that your extrimly selfish and dont care about how your going to hurt his wife!
Don't do that, it's not nice. You really don't want to be a home wrecker.
get pregnant. It's really bad though. Karma will kick your ASSSSSSSSS***
Apparently, you haven't had the (dis) pleasure of meeting Karma, she is a REAL B**** and will beat the hell outta ya. You'll meet her soon though. Oh well?
Typically when the wife finds out her husband is a louse and a cheater, that is the end of the relationship. You've already broken it up dear...or initiated the break up.





I'd sure hate to have your karma...
Wow There is something really wrong with you! karma is a B****!
Being cruel and evil to someone else is not love .





If you hurt others for your own selfish gain and believe yourself to be a decent person , then your are very confused and need help .
he doesn't love you, just using you to fill his needs





why break up someone's marriage?





does he love you?





his family comes first





why?
You are a crazy hooker. One day, while you are sleeping, your classy man will be getting worked over by a cheap Dominican call girl with rampant STDs. You will be unaware of his misdeeds....until you experience the violent, painful symptoms of the multiple diseases he unknowingly contracted.





While pissing blood and fighting off eruptions of puss that suddenly emerge from your body, you will wail at the top of your longs and wonder ';why am I in this mess?'; Then, you will think back to how you wrongfully sought to destroy a marriage and how you are now getting a rightful payback.
people like you get found face down, at the stream at the end of town.
Just how much of your time is sleeping? I think the real word there is probably fornication.

How do you break up with someone you still want to ba friends with?

i really need to know how to break up with someone because i like someone else and its not working out please help!!How do you break up with someone you still want to ba friends with?
just b like babe u kno its not working we need to jus chill and just be cool on each other from now on then make sure he understands wut u trynna sayHow do you break up with someone you still want to ba friends with?
if its not working, then ignore him..and when he asks ';what the hell is up with you?'; then you tell him that you are just not interested anymore.

How do u break up with someone without hurting them and keep them as a friend?

We were really good friends, then he told me he liked me as more than a friend. i then decided to give him a chance and now i regret it i wanna go back to being friends, the thing is i don't know how.How do u break up with someone without hurting them and keep them as a friend?
Sorry to tell you, but in a situation like this, there really is no easy way to break something like this to a person. The best way to go about handling this is by being honest and straight forward. Being that you two were friends before actually getting together, it might be kinda easy to go back to being just friends. Just sit him down and tell him how you feel and why you feel this way. Expressing how you feel about someone can be rough because you never wanna make it seem like you're toying with someone's emotions. So to avoid any hard feelings between you two, you're gonna have to at least try to be honest as well as understanding, especially if he doesn't take the news so well.


Good Luck !How do u break up with someone without hurting them and keep them as a friend?
There are always feelings hurt and more than often remaining friends is usually a done deal.
Wow i have been in this exact situation. Just tell him you liked him better as a friend
Just face the fire -- if he's definitely your friend - then he'll understand !

How do you break up with someone you love?.?

I decide too much effort is required to make the relationship work.And I'm tired. I think its better I'd let him go. How about you?How do you break up with someone you love?.?
it sounds a little selfish. loving someone is about commitment and doing things for that person regardless of how it makes you feel. true love is being commited, not getting tired after you've had your fill. im sorry, but if its just because the thrill is over or whatever...and hes just not giving you that spark anymore, its because you're missing Jesus. love isnt about satisfying your own needs, its about satisfying others needs.





hope it works out for youHow do you break up with someone you love?.?
I think I'm in a pretty similar situation right now. Boyfriend is living with his parents going to a community college and I'm an hour away going to a university. I'm tired of having someone to constantly consider in all my decisions that I don't get to see and I can't see more because of conflicting schedules.





Sorry, I can't actually give you any advice... But you aren't alone in the situation.
You just have to be honest and know that he isn't going to be on board. That's how it goes. The one who wants to leave is ready but doesn't want to hurt the other and the other is surprised and tries to find a way to allow the relationship to go on. It's tough because you have to be mean and cold and if you try to be nice they think there is a possibility that it will last. I wish you luck and if anything it's a learning experience. Best of luck.
I am in the same boat. When the effort is one-sided, there needs to be changes made. Learn to love yourself more than you think you love him. You need to take care of you! He won't be the one to take care of you. If he was, you wouldn't be asking this question, right?
maybe you just need a break , a pause that is .... lots of long distance relationships work like that ..if you are living together that's another kettle of fish ...be sure to explore your other options before you do anything if you don't know what the reaction will be ( another place to live , your safety , your belongings/valueables..., your other romantic love interests if any) .. If you know any couples who seem in synch , ask them ( or one of them ) how they do it.
Try harder. All relationships are hard work. If you love him then you're going to have to work on it everyday and it's going to be really hard but it should be worth it. That is, if you really love him.
if you really love them, try taking a break first. what is causing it not to work?? i would try talking first rather than just dumping. if you love someone so much, you will try and make it work.
well seeing as i've never met you or your significant other and know next to nothing about the situation i say stay with him

How Do You Break Up With Someone?

How do you break up with someone you care about alot?.. How can you do it in a way were you wont hurt them or something.. i feel so bad for doing so, but i believe its the right thing to do..


How Do You Break Up With Someone?
Be open and honest with them, give them reasons why you came to this conclusion and avoid putting the blame all on them. Unfortunately break ups are hard on both parties, just do your best. If you do this right you might be able to remain friends!


Best Wishes!How Do You Break Up With Someone?
first of all:


think about it hard


if u really love them and care about them


think


think hard if u really want to break u with them





and you need to list reasons of why its important for you to brake up with them because if theres no good reason then don't do it





but if you already did that and you are sure you want to brake it off with them then phone or in person are good ways





phone= if its too painfull for you in person


person= if u want to be str8 up and kinda mean though not really
There is no easy way around it. You have to sit them down and be brutally honest with them. Tell them that its is no longer working for you, and that as much as you hate to do it, you feel it will be best for both of you in the long run. If they are in love with you, they will be crushed, but will eventually get over it.
make sure you do it face to face and alone...not in a restaurant or anywhere because crying and screaming will occur.





i'd suggest driving around with them listening to sad like break up songs...that say it's the end, but you still love them. if that makes any sense.





and just talk about your relationship and how you feel it's right to break up. but you still care for them.
I would write a letter.Perhaps that's the cowards way,but face to face confrontation is not for me.You can think clearly when writing a letter.You can spend days editing it and making it just right.
i wish i knew cuz i have a history of long, bad relationships, partially cuz i don't know how or when to call it quits. don't be like me!
take them somewhere and sit them down and tell them EXACTLY how u feel...dont just send a coward text message or phonecall. If ur honest they will be able to move on quicker than if u didnt tell them everything.
I asked for a break just so it wouldn't come as a shock. Then I told them I didn't love them, and I thought it was best if we broke up before they got hurt.
to their face, don't do it any other way, no texts, no email, no phone calls, give them respect, they earned it

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Best way to break up with someone?

Where and how would be the best way to break up with someone. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and 2 months now...but it's just not working. Need more info? Just ask. Thanks.Best way to break up with someone?
Tell them, in person unless you are king of the wimps, what you just told us and both of you get on with your lives.Best way to break up with someone?
At her place, you can leave, with a box of pizza, bring it in and take it to her, make the pizza topping into the shape 'it's just not working out' (Make sure its not hot she may just throw it in your face.)


It's good because it allows her to vent her anger in the way she likes best by eating or by hurting you, either way it'll be an inventive break up.





Or you can just go to her place and just tell her your not happy anymore, either way would work. Good luck.
Well, a lot of it depends on your current situation together, so details would help. It's a lot harder to break up if someone is living with you, or if they don't see any problem with the relationship.





If it's really not working out, and you don't see any way to reconcile it, you're going to have to be the one to take the initiative. If you can find a time that is reasonably stress-free for you both, tell her you'd like to discuss your relationship. Don't postpone it, don't let her stew over it, just sit her down and talk to her about it.





If she hasn't considered ending the relationship, then she is obviously going to be upset that you're dumping her. Depending on her friendbase and her level of maturity, she may be extremely sad, and you may very well become the villain among her (and possibly your shared) friends.





I won't lie, it's bound to get uncomfortable, but if you truly don't want it to continue, you owe it to her to be honest and straightforward, as do it as soon as possible.
Face to face - Approach her directly and let her know gracefully the differences due to which the relationship wont work. Let her know that you do not wish to waste her time where she could probably doing something better for herself





if you are afraid to confront face to face - Write/type a letter highlighting your feelings and its in 'her' best interest to break up. Email or courier it to her





Use a common friend to intervene





G. Luck!
THEIR ISN'T PERFECT WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE . IT GOING TO HURT ANY WAYS. I SUGGEST THAT TRY TO BE VERY CALM WHEN SID IT . BUT THAT JUST ME
Just say ';welcome to Dumpsville, population: YOU';
tell them for wat purposeur breaking. and be friend with them.

How to break up with someone?

Ok, so my best friend who's a guy is going out with this girl. They've been going out for almost a year now, but he doesn't feel for her at all in that way. He never did. Their parents are close friends so it was kinda a forced relationship.


He's finally gotten sick of it, and now he wants to know how he should break up with her without hurting her. He's not even sure if she cares for him either...they never communicate past small talk. Like I said, it's a crappy relationship. Detailed help please? He REALLY doesn't want to hurt her.How to break up with someone?
Honesty is the best policy. He could try sitting her down and explaining to her that he cares for her but in a friend like way and that he'd prefer for them to be friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend.How to break up with someone?
he can say i do like you but in just a friend kinnda way or like a sister not in a romantic sense and im telling you this bc you should be with someone that does want to be with all the time and thAT REALLY LIKES YOU HOPE I HELPED
Well, if he thinks she doesn't care for him, then he shouldn't have any problem breaking up with her.
Gia is right, honesty is the best policy. It's the two of them that is going through the relationship, not the parents. If your friend and the gf do not want to be in the relationship, I think the two of them should talk together first, to make sure that they are on the same page about the current condition of the relationship and where they want to go with it.





After that, they need to sit down with their parents, maybe all together, to explain that although they understand the parent's intention (the parents are doing this because they care, and they think its the best for your friend and the gf) but they do not feel that it is right for them, and they are not happy.





They are only dating now, and it is not too late to end things, if that's what they both really want. Good luck!

How do you break up with someone controlling?

He controls every aspect of my life, I cant have friends or anything. He doesn't like to talk about his life and he is very secretive about his personal belongings. He can look through my phone, my computer, my wallet but all his stuff is password-protected. Ive been with him 6 months and im ready to get out! I just don't know how to do itHow do you break up with someone controlling?
Just tell him that it isn't working out and be prepared to get a restraining order.How do you break up with someone controlling?
Sorry to say but this definitely does not sound like a healthy relationship. If he is checking your phone, and being suspicious of you, chances are great that he is hiding something (like another relationship which would explain all his stuff being password protected). Throw him the same ball. Tell him if he can look through your stuff, so can you. If not, then he can't look at your stuff either. Tell him calmly that you don't think the relationship can work if you both didn't have equal rights. Also, tell him to give you legitimate reasons to check your stuff. If you aren't being flirty with guys and aren't getting texts from guys at 3 am in the morning, or if you aren't doing anything suspicious, he has no right to check any of your stuff. Tell him that either he stops being insecure or you are breaking up with him. Give him the right reasons I mentioned above, and he shouldn't stop you from leaving. Also, just a tip, if he is the type of guy who gets angry really easily, take a friend with you just in case when you do go to break up with him. You can let the friend sit in the car or something so you two can still be private.
Alright u need to get the hell away from him and u said uv been with him for 6 months oh hell naw i would have left him when he looked through my stuff girl look u dnt know if he's a murder or a killer and he's stuff is on lock down oh omg get OUT OF THAT HOUSE AS FAST AS U CAN U HEAR ME I MAY NOT KNOW U BUT TRUST ME I HAVE HELPED SOOO MANY PEOPLE look dnt panic around him b/c he will think something is wrong and he might hit u soo just play it off and just be like if he see's u packing just be like im spending the night at my friends house i will be back tommorw and when u get in that car u go straight to the police station you hear me u will be ok


whenever u do leave whenever u feel like u r safe write back to me soo i will feel better ok
hun thats too much. you can't be having your controling boyfriend be doing that.





ask yourself this... how long will it take you to finally snap?


talk to him before that happens.


next time you see him, take him aside and consider saying '; i don;t like how we are. you invade my privacy, i can't talk with anyone or have my own life without you knowing everything about me. your too much, your to close and i want a change.';





if you want to break it off, then tell him. '; i can't be with someone who won't let me live my own life. i can't do this anymore';... and walk away. once he knows how you feel and make it clear.





good luck!
LEAVE. Period. I hope you don't live with him, if so..try getting your own place or living with family/friends for awhile. If you're scared of what he might do when you try to leave, contact the police. If you don't live with him, it's simple...avoid ALL contact with him and as someone already stated, you might have to get a restraining. There is no ';nice'; way of leaving a relationship with someone who is that secretive and controlling.
just get the guts and say '; im tired of being treated like this. it hurts me and if u loved me you wouldnt do this to me. its not right let alone fair that u can look through my stuff and i cant look through urs. its over, end of disscussion!!!'; and if he is open for talking sit down with him and let him explain y he is doin things like that. what he is doing is more along the lines of non trusting other than controlling, but controlling is part of it.
This guy sounds like a creep. Get out NOW, and do so by just telling him you are uncomfortable and feel bad about how the relationship is going. Don't allow yourself to be negotiated into coming back to him. Say what you have to say and leave. If he tries to call, email, text, or anything ignore him. These types of guys can be dangerous and he probably isn't too far from physically hitting you. LEAVE NOW!
Just get your stuff together and leave. If you encounter him, tell him ';It's over'; and be prepared for everything - don't let him engage you in a discussion. If you have a friend left, ask for help/company while doing so.
wow..ok just tell him u cant have someone controlling ur life and u dont want to be with him...JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT HOW U FEEL
break up with him infront of a court were there cops lol than right after your break up get a restraining order.
text him and say ';i love you but iv had enough..u are too controling,im breaking up with you..sorry';


thats all...unless you want to risk ur life and do it in person

How do i break up with a friend ?

How do you break up with someone nicely. I like him, but i think i only like him as a good friend. the problem is he says hes in love with me, %26amp; i kinda lead him on. so i dont know how to end it without sounding like a player.How do i break up with a friend ?
just be friends with him no more (treat him like that). he'll eventually realise he just wants to be good friends rather than not having you at all :)How do i break up with a friend ?
Oh this is what you say.


Lets say bis name is Jhon.


';So Jhon. I was thinking in my bed last night if I really want to be in a relationship. I like you. But I would just rather be friends. I hope you understand. And in the future if it .... if it goes to something more then I'll be ready. Okay- thanks Jhon.'; Kiss him on the cheak or hug hm or let him know you stll' care about him
just tell him he is a cool person and you would love for your friendship to grow but at this point in time you see him as nothing more than a friend, or you could just be an asshole and say yea this friends thing aint working, dueces
Say him straightly that you dnt feel anything special for him....love should be taken seriously. Better you open up ur want immediately bcoz as time passes this guy may become more sturburn over his love and could create troubles for you .....so said him and keep saying big NO NO NO ....
Tell him the truth. If he's really your friend he'll understand where you're coming from. If not then he really shouldn't be in your life. I'm not trying to sound mean but if he really does love you, he'll understand your point of view.

Whats the least painful way to break up with someone who really loves you?

basically my bf at the moment really really loves me (he says he does anyway) and i dont feel the same way at all. i've decided i'm going to end it soon but i dont know how to. any ideas of what i can say to him which would be the most pain free option?Whats the least painful way to break up with someone who really loves you?
There isn't a painful way at all. Breakups hurt a lot of people.


Tell it straight from the heart. Tell him that the feelings you had for him at the beginning of your relationship aren't there anymore, and you can't still be with him and that it's unfair to him if you still were.


Wishing you well for 2010.Whats the least painful way to break up with someone who really loves you?
Play the friendship card. Be like hey you know I do care for you but more on a friend level. I dont see this going anywhere other than as friends. I really hope that somewhere down the line things will work but right now they just wont. (Even though you dont hope that.)
there is no least painful way it will always be painful if the person loves you


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How do you break up with someone nicely without looking like a major #$%*?

If the person hasn't really done anything wrong, you know that they are really in love with you...but you just dont feel anything back. It's obviously better to be honest with yourself and the person involved...but I really don't want to hurt them more than I have to.How do you break up with someone nicely without looking like a major #$%*?
Mate, I did it to someone that I went out with for 3 yrs its hard thing to do and they will hate you for it, you cant help this and that is the way its gonna be, dont give her faulse hope either because you feel guilty, did that once too not good for the other person involved....still to this day I feel a little bad that I did this to her, but in most ways I am glad I let her go and she is now my friend after nearly a year since I split with her...she was sooooo upset and distraught but again it has to be this way so go and tell her asap! Make sure she has some support like her friend, ring her friend and ask them to pop around and see her and ask them to be there for her, obviously after you have split with her...so they know straight away what is going on...!How do you break up with someone nicely without looking like a major #$%*?
Look, there really isn't much you can do. But don't pretend to love her back, because it's shallow and will make things hurt so much more for her. Who knows, maybe she's tired of you and will be okay, but be super careful about it. Girls are sensitive, and she's just not gonna like it. Tell her you wish you felt the same way, but for some reason it just isn't there, and that you really didn't deserve someone as special as her in the first place. Apologize, and when it's all over never say anything bad about her, cause people will hate you for it. Even if you really don't like her anymore, be as gentle as possible. It will be bad for a bit, but in the end it will all be okay. Sorry your in the situation, right now my boyfriend keeps saying all these amazingly powerful things to me and I just can't say the same back, and I feel bad that I can't just explain that the feeling is gone. It really sucks, but thinks will get better...hope it all works out!

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Nicest way to break up with someone?

Me and my bf have been goin out for about a month. But i really dont feel a connection anymore. I was going to do it today but he wrote me a note saying he loves me and s happy to be with me. So how can i nicesly end it? And without it being akward cause we sit next to each other in a class.Nicest way to break up with someone?
say its over holaaaaaa in a nice way

How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?

In a relationship I'm not happy with. My boyfriend is nothing but an immature idiot boy, but he really loves me and I don't want to hurt him. I don't mind the whole hard-feelings thing, because we weren't really friends before we started dating. Also I have my eyes on someone else. Do I bring him up?


HEEEEELP!How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?
I wouldn't burn the bridge completely. Could be your perspective of him is not right and also you could raise him right! If he grows out of the Peter Pan stage enough to be responsible, you may learn to appreciate a man who is crazy in love with you. Some women's ';no'; is better than other women's ';yes';. Be that kind of woman when you say ';no';.How do you break up with someone without breaking their heart?
If your opinion of your boyfriend is an immature idiot boy, then I think he will be fine and live to see another day. Just buy him an xbox game and slip out the back ';Jack';


Good Luck!


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just tell him the truth, he will get over it
You can't break up with someone and not break their heart if they truly love you. Just tell him you want to move on and grow and I would not bring up the other guy your interested in. He will find out for himself soon enough.
if this boy really likes you, his heart will be broken no matter what. even if he says its ok dont feel bad, im fine, ect. He still is hurt. But in time he will get over it so do what you have to do
It is impossible to break up with someone without breaking their heart. Just tell him that you are not happy anymore and you want the relationship to end
well i think sticky.fngrz is right leave out the other person and just break up with him. its gonna hurt, but you have to look out for you
just rip that band-aid off. you can't really break up with someone without hurting their feelings.
You can't break up with someone without hurting them. That's just the price of doing it. It should also suggest a certain social responsibility not to induce others to fall in love with you unless you have a fair chance of feeling the same way for this very reason.
to begin with if you don't want to hurt him do not bring up the other person just be honest and tell him that you do not share the same feelings and you need to stop before it goes any further but you still want to be friends.at least this is what i would do hope this Helps you Lot's of luck
that is the thing about breaking up, there is no nice way to do it, and you can't use the now famous line ';it's not you, it's me'; even if that is the case.





you just have to tell him the truth, tell him you are not happy, you feel that you should persuit happieness elswhere, and you would rather end it like this than to cheat on him etc.





that is IF you really want to bring the other guy into this right?





but you do owe him the truth, good luck!
Sorry, but there is no way to break up with someone without breaking their heart. Just break it to him gently. No matter what you may feel about him, he deserves that much.
Leave the other person that caught your eye out of it. But no matter what, your gonna hurt him because there's an emotional attachment to you. Good luck. Just be honest and sincere.
it's not your fault if they decide to be really upset about you breaking up with them. if you want to move on, the you should. and if they really love you, then they should be able to acept that.
Honesty I suppose, although dont mention the other guy, say you dont like they way he acts or w/e it is about him you dont like, to let him know why you want to end it
It is impossible to break up with someone and not hurt them. The best thing to do is be honest. Not to the point that you make him feel like an idiot because you think he is immature. Just tell him you do not have the feelings for him you used to, you have different interests and you have grown apart. I think it best not to mention the other guy. If he asks tell him there is no one, especially if you are not dating anyone else. That way you are honest with him. Do not tell him you have your eye on someone else, the first thing your friend will ask is '; who is he';.
if they truly care about you then you cant break up with them without at least hurting them badly if not breaking their heart but the sooner you get it over with the better