Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Is there any way to break up with someone without hurting them?

My ex broke up with me in a nice way.He did it in person and he was straight up and honest.He even gave me hug at the end and tell me to take care of myself.





I thought i would be fine but i am hurt.How long does it take for the pain to go away?Is there any way to break up with someone without hurting them?
I don't think so. Even when you want to break up also, there is the ego trip of being rejected. Sometimes life just hurts.





Time has no meaning in the healing process, so no one can really say how long it will take for the pain to go away. Just keep the faith that this, too, will pass.





Heal well, my friend.Is there any way to break up with someone without hurting them?
If you still love him the pain will not go away if you keep seeing him and talking to him. It will just sadden you and make you upset. The only way to make it go away is to block him from your life. After a while you might get over it enough to talk to him again. But not while the wound is raw. There is no way to break up with a person without hurting them. If they still have feelings it will always hurt them.
It seems impossible to not hurt someone when you break up with them.





Is the pain there because you miss him? Or is it due to some other reason?





The pain will go away quicker if you find other things to do. For example, things you couldn't do when you were in a relationship.





Try new things and see new people. This will make you feel better about yourself. Maybe get a hair cut and go out with your girl friends.





Romantic relationships are only a small part of your life. You have many other things to be happy about. =] Concentrate on those things.
There's no way to do it without hurting the person if they really like you. But in my experience, breaking up with the person hurts even more b/c you usually regret it later on.
Find out and anallise why he broke up with you and try to forget him.

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