If u love them and they mean everything to u but u just arent being treated right and it feels like ur making all the effort?How do u know when the right time to break up with someone is?
There really isn't a ';right time'; to break up with someone. It's only when you feel that you've done all you possibly could to try to make the relationship work and it still won't work. This being because little or no effort is being made on their part, and you are the only one trying.
Ask yourself if that person would make the same sacrifices you'd make for them.
If you were stranded on the side of the road at 3am, would they rush out to get you or would they lay in bed and ask questions first?
When you share exciting or disappointing news with them, do they give you the reaction you would seek from someone you're in a relationship with? (support, sympathy, etc)
Do they often misunderstand things or say or do because they don't take the time to listen or hear you out?
Maybe this person isn't ready to be in a relationship right now and they may not even realize it. Some people who suck at relationships don't actually intend to hurt you. They just suck at relationships.
When you're truly fed up, you'll break up with the person and not even look back.
How do u know when the right time to break up with someone is?
Make sure you've done everything you can to make your feelings known. Talk to your partner, tell him/her that you feel this way. Maybe they feel that you haven't done your part, or maybe something bad happened and they haven't told you yet.
If you've done everything you can and nothing changes, it's time to move on.
the right time to break it off is when you have any doubts at alllllll. unless both are completely in all aspects truly love, respect, trust each other then your wasting time if you are looking or hoping for a long term relationship.by the way its a 2 way street.
Im in exactly the same predicament.. I wish you luck.
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