Friday, August 20, 2010

How do you break up with someone you never see?

Everyone knows that email, text, IM. All of those are a low- chicken's way- to break up with someone. But if you never see them in person (once a week maybe) and won't see them for 2 weeks at the time, how is the best way to break up with them?How do you break up with someone you never see?
I would prefer to break up during an actual conversation when you know they'll get the news right away, so through IMing, or a phone call. That to me is more personal then a text message or an email, where it'll just sit there until they find it.





Edit: I know what you mean about clingy. Remember to utilize ever blocking capability you have if he goes cuckoo.How do you break up with someone you never see?
Well maybe no one answers your questions due to your rude, blunt and prejudging manners. (';Piggish';...That ring a bell. lol)...But I'll be a gentleman and assume that it's possibly that ';time of the month'; for you and ignore your obvious bluntness and my question you answered and answer your question.





I honestly agree with the first answer. Why even bother. You have never even seen or met this person in person... But on the other hand, I can see why you would still consider doing it in a considerate way. I am the same way. Regardless of how long or well I knew the person or if I had ever seen or met the person, I would still want to end it by being honest with them. So all I can say is simply be nice while at the same time being honest. You don't want to hurt his/her feelings by simply not talking to them out of the blue. Trying doing it over the phone. Or since you've never met anyway, ending it by IM really wouldn't make a difference or look that bad either.
Phone, or wait until you see each other. My recent ex did in a way even I thought respectable. We last saw each other sunday june 28 and then we were both busy all the following week with work, and then she went away with family thurs-sun of july 4 weekend. she came over my house that following monday night and i had no reason to suspect anything was up. we laid on the couch and watched across the universe on tv. right after she sat up, and said something like ';ive been thinking.....'; and that started the conversation about ending it. very effortless and low-key.
Ew. Clingy is a major turn off. Just write a nice letter/e-mail. Explain as nicely as you can why that way there's no awkward pauses and stumbling of a phone call. If he continues to be super clingy, block him. best of luck to you.
i guess it deos matter in the relations ship:


fa seriouse realation ship or one that has been going on for along time i would say on the phone but if it is a little relationship just do over text but in a nice way
I guess the best thing to do is wait until you see them. P.S. Thanks you answered my question and it helped, Thanks
send him a letter


that would be a nice appropriate way


:)
over the phone
sounds like a waste of time to even be thinking of it.


What is there to ';break up';?
Yes!

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