Friday, August 20, 2010

How Do You Break Up With Someone?

How do you break up with someone you care about alot?.. How can you do it in a way were you wont hurt them or something.. i feel so bad for doing so, but i believe its the right thing to do..


How Do You Break Up With Someone?
Be open and honest with them, give them reasons why you came to this conclusion and avoid putting the blame all on them. Unfortunately break ups are hard on both parties, just do your best. If you do this right you might be able to remain friends!


Best Wishes!How Do You Break Up With Someone?
first of all:


think about it hard


if u really love them and care about them


think


think hard if u really want to break u with them





and you need to list reasons of why its important for you to brake up with them because if theres no good reason then don't do it





but if you already did that and you are sure you want to brake it off with them then phone or in person are good ways





phone= if its too painfull for you in person


person= if u want to be str8 up and kinda mean though not really
There is no easy way around it. You have to sit them down and be brutally honest with them. Tell them that its is no longer working for you, and that as much as you hate to do it, you feel it will be best for both of you in the long run. If they are in love with you, they will be crushed, but will eventually get over it.
make sure you do it face to face and alone...not in a restaurant or anywhere because crying and screaming will occur.





i'd suggest driving around with them listening to sad like break up songs...that say it's the end, but you still love them. if that makes any sense.





and just talk about your relationship and how you feel it's right to break up. but you still care for them.
I would write a letter.Perhaps that's the cowards way,but face to face confrontation is not for me.You can think clearly when writing a letter.You can spend days editing it and making it just right.
i wish i knew cuz i have a history of long, bad relationships, partially cuz i don't know how or when to call it quits. don't be like me!
take them somewhere and sit them down and tell them EXACTLY how u feel...dont just send a coward text message or phonecall. If ur honest they will be able to move on quicker than if u didnt tell them everything.
I asked for a break just so it wouldn't come as a shock. Then I told them I didn't love them, and I thought it was best if we broke up before they got hurt.
to their face, don't do it any other way, no texts, no email, no phone calls, give them respect, they earned it
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