Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you break up with someone without a reason?

My boyfriend likes me way more than i like him and i feel bad because i just dont want to be with him anymore. Whenever i think about our relationship i just feel like something is wrong. I dont know how i should tell him and i want to do it soon. I'm afraid he will get mad because i dont have an actual reason for wanting to break up.How do you break up with someone without a reason?
why do you need to not have a reason? tell him the truth. its simple 'im sorry hun you really mean loads to me but im just not feeling the same about you any more.'





no break up is going to be easy but you an at least be honest about itHow do you break up with someone without a reason?
im in the same situation with my boyfriend and i feel like im always looking to start an argument and for an excuse to break up with him but just be honest, sit him down and tell him you dont feel the same way and that is why you cant continue to go out with him cos it will only hurt him more. tell him he did nothing wrong its just you aren't on the same page, if he gets mad he gets mad, that will only be his way of dealing with it


goodluck
Actually, I just went through this same situation, and was forced to address the same issue.





You should tell him that it is nothing that he did, but it is unfair to both of you to continue with the relationship. Tell him that it is going to be better to end it now than later. BUT WATCH OUT! If you do this, make sure you distance yourself. Feelings are still there even if the relationship does not ';exist on paper'; so to speak. You might still find yourself tempted to live/act like you still are together, even if his feelings were the stronger ones.





Be true to yourself, and be truthful with him.
just tell him you don't think its working out, the relationship is now over. Don't even bother explaining why. don't argue with him or debate the issue. Tell him its over and walk away.


I've been in a lot of relationships, been dumped all kinds of ways, the ones where she came right out and told me its not working out, the relationship is over, were the ones I appreciated the most
you dont need a reason, if it's not there, it's not there. Just tell him it's not working out, or if you have to have a reason, just tell him that a lot's going on, with school, or family, or anything. Just dont string him along if you dont like him. :)
say these excact words ';this relationship just doesnt feel right to me'; ';whenever i'm around i feel like i'm out of place'; ';i use to love you so much when we first started going out'; ';but i just dont feel it anymore';
Tell him you just don't feel the ';spark'; that you used to feel. And its over.

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