What are some easy ways to break up with someone?

especially if they claim their '; in love with you';. how can you do this without feeling terrible?What are some easy ways to break up with someone?
Be honest and diplomatic. If they say that they are in love with you, try to be nice about it.


I had to do it once and I simply told them that I just did not feel the same way they did. I explained that I thought he was a really nice guy, but I was just not feeling the same way and I did not want to waste any more of his time and let him know he needed to put his efforts into finding a person that would feel the same way about him.


Honesty is about the best way you can go....just remember since this person has feelings for you to try to be as kind as possible while being blunt about not having the same feelings for them. Do not lead her on and heaven forbid, do not use her for a booty call EVER, that would send the wrong signs to her.What are some easy ways to break up with someone?
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Breaking up Without The Heartbreak


Posted by The Alien on Sunday, September 27, 2009 at 10:00 PM


ok so you and your boyfriend/girlfriend had a good long run. you have grown apart, you have differences, or maybe you just found someone cuter. whatever the reason breaking up is NEVER easy. but there are ways to ease the pain.





method#1 Just do It! one of the hardest methods to execute, this way demands guts. i mean only a certain type of person can pull this off,often the shallow type. the JDI method can be done in the following ways:





the classic'; it's over';





i dont wanna be with you anymore





i think we should see other people





we just aren't made for eachother





cliche`? no its all in the execution. in order for the JDI way to work you must be assertive, abrupt, blunt and put simply, mean.Now, not all people will respond to this the same way. if you have a very needy or attached guy/girl JDI may cause them alot of pain and this method was not developed for the faint of heart. However guys/girls who are more cocky, dominant , or controlling,will need that firmness in order for them to get off your back.





method#2 The shpeel! the method that is really only appreciated when it is thought about PRIOR to being delivered. The more honest you are with the reasons you want to break up the easier this is to execute. Not all people will recieve this well especially if they are not really into ';feelings'; on the other hand there are those that will appreciate you taking the time to explain rather than just dumping them!





method#3 make them do it themselves! ok for you softies who just cant find it in your heart to break up with someone and you find yourself trapped in a relationship that you dont want be in. well the only way out now is through that same person! you know why they like you so ';un do'; that. I'm not saying to make yourself completely unattractive- I'm saying that you need to make them not like you anymore. Doing things like shrugging them off when they try to hug you or making snide comments when they says things. They will eventually get the hint and decide that you're not for them.











ultimately if you choose one of my methods or use your own remember: not all relationships are meant to last. The reasons most breakups are so hard is because of the terms they are ended on. ususally the ones that happen cuz of fights or disagreements are hardest because the focus is put on ';o maybe if we didnt fight then we would still be together'; when in reality the relationship was doomed from the start. so go out there and happy breaking up! ( lol)
Ok first of all, don't even think of pulling those ';Its not you, its me'; lines for Pete's sake. Unless there's really a valid reason, most likely you will feel bad.





Anyway, breaking up is a part of life. You should do it in person though, you're man enough to get into a relationship then you're man enough to say it in person.





Just say how you feel and why you are breaking up with her. Its hard I know, but in the end you'll feel better.
There is no easy way to break up with someone who is in love with you. They will feel hurt for a while no matter what.