Yes he is amazing, but i'm religious and i feel like he's drawing me away from god. Today we were in an arguement and he slapped me, It wasn't hard, but i don't know if i can put up with it.
also, we've fought every week for the past month and a half. we still love each other, he does really sweet things for me but i keep trying to put a wall up. (it almost feels like my own problem, not his sometimes)
should I break up with him, and how?How do you break up with someone you still love?
Well, I'm kind of in the same boat. I have been with this girl that I love for a year and a half. I am devoted to God, and she doesn't really understand and chooses not to. I used to be like her as far as faith goes, but I have become religious again. But anyways, I feel that I should stay with her, and make her into a Christian, as I am. I feel I must help her learn and come to love The Lord. I argue with her every now %26amp; then, but the times that we are happy, are the happiest times of my life, and I wouldn't trade them for the World. She actually started reading a Bible, which makes me very happy. I just hope she starts understanding what sacrifices need to be made and what needs to happen in order for her to be a devoted, God loving Christian. I think that if you believe you can change him, you should. Don't let anyone take away your faith, that is yours to keep. If you really love him, you will stay with him and try to let him receive God in his heart, so he can be with you after you both pass away. Now if he definitely refuses to believe or ackowledge God %26amp; is pulling you away, then it may be best to dump him. It just depends on the circumstances. Also, when he slapped you was it just a joke like he was messing around, or did it hurt, and was it to intentionally hurt you? If it was to hurt you, you shouldn't be with someone who is going to hit you. If he was just messing, then just tell him not to do that anymore. But you should definitely give it some deep thought before you make any decisions. Also, pray to God for guidance through all this, and have him help you come to a decsion. If God wants you to be with him, it will be so. If it's not in his will, it wasn't meant to be. I hope I helped. God bless you, and your boyfriend too.How do you break up with someone you still love?
You should Not put up with a boyfriend slapping you ! You are absolutely right ! I personally don't even believe in the woman slapping her boyfriend; even though he is a ';man'; and it's a lot more acceptable in society. I think you need to tell him that if this doesn't stop and his behavior doesn't change, you can deal with it anymore and you'll have to let him go. If he truly loves you he needs to put your differences aside, respect your belief in God, and stop abusing you. because you can find someone so much better, who will treat you better, that is true and you shouldn't have to go through something like this. Talk to him. take care of yourself %26amp; do what you feel is right =) good luck*
Yes a sensible question
You must be nearly completing the 2nd year of your relation.This is the time when fights start followed by tears and draby excuses.
If you really love this guy you have to tolerate and pass this period say like another 6 months or an year....and if this is your first love the question is really, how much would he change you before he accepts you..
Does he love you or really want to turn you into something that he wants because he could not find somebody like that.....
If you want to break up with him just show him who you really are a GOD fearing person i doubt that he can stand it much, cause he is afraid that you might change him.....
You should never let anyone hit you or take you away from something you believe in. If he doesn't respect your values, then he isn't worth it. On the other side of things, have you brought it to his attention? and calmly expressed how your feeling and warn him you can't take this much longer? If you do talk to him abbout it, and there's no forward movement, then its time to end the relationship. Again, you have to calmly break it to him and give him exact reasons why.
If he really truly loved you back, he'd respect your religion and he DEFINATLY wouldn't have slapped you. That's abuse... And that is DEFINATLY his problem...because that is never appropriate behavior. Not your problem...
There's no easy way to break up with some-one. So all you can say is that the relationship isn't working and you're breaking up with him.
God bless you and help you through this time of struggle!!!!!! =)
He slapped you???!!! Number one, you should call the cops on him. Number two, don't walk - RUN - as far away from this man as fast as you can. He is an abuser. The slapping is just the beginning. You are trying to put a wall up because you know in your heart this man is dangerous and you need to GET AWAY FROM HIM! NOW! PLEASE!! And if you don't think there is anything wrong with his behavior, you should call a battered woman's shelter and tell them what he did. They can fill you in on what your future will be like with this man.
yes you should break up with him. no one has the right to slap you. if he can slap you now, you can be sure he'll do much worse later on...
i'm sorry to say this sweetie, but he doesn't love you. he cannot hurt you and love you. doing sweet things for you doesn't erase the fact that he slapped you. period. the fact that the slap is not even hard is only indicative of his contempt for you.
if he dared to slap you he's capable of doing much worse.I know you say you love him but sounds like he's putting you through hell.Just tell him you don't think it's going to work out because of his attitude and a man wouldn't touch a woman so he's not a real man.Yes, i definitely think you should brake up with him, he doesn't deserve you!You deserve way better than that jerk!.JUst tell him i wanna break up and tell him all the things that he does that bothers you.
im not sure if you should break up with him
i'm a guy and i honestly never would see a reason to hit a woman so that is disturbing that he would
ask God?
if you value religion a lot you need to make sure he understands how you feel about religion and that you're not willing to compromise your relationship with God for your relationship with him (your bf)
think about your decision a lot and ask others or God before you make a rash decision
OMG, THAT IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO!!
do not let a stupid asshole push you around like that . if he's like that then just leave him. odviously he does'nt love you. because if he did love you, then about 10 seconds into the argument he would prolly realize how much he loves you, cares about you, and never wants to lose you and just kiss you. but he did'nt do that. he just slapped you. and you let him get away with it. if you want to stay with him, and he keeps doing that, haul off and punch the **** out of him. lololololol. but seriously, if you let him by with it, he'll keep abusing you.
and that is not good. so i think you should just dump him
seriously
sit down and have a talk with him and be like , ';I really love you and care about you.. but i just don't think it's going to work out.';
i hope this helped
if he's hitting you, even if it was barely a slap, its not right.
it starts small and progressively gets worse.
if you feel unhappy with him even though you do love him, you should break up. if hes drawing you away from your religious beliefs, you should. if you have to change for him, then hes not right for you. sometimes you have to do whats right for yourself and not worry about how he'll feel. its hard but youll feel better after. i just broke up with my fiance of four years because i was unhappy with our long distance relationship. he's in the navy and i pretty much never seen him. i love him to death, i swear, but i just wasnt happy and it was hard telling him but now that i did, i feel better. i think you should break up with him. explain that its not him, that youre just unhappy and you dont think youre meant to work out.
think about what YOU want, not what he does.
good luck
Whether or not you are religious no one should put up with violence. Fighting does hurt a relationship as well. If you are super religious (not that there is anything wrong with that) than you are probably better off with someone who has the same views as you.
Know what you deserve and NEVER settle for less.
Get rid of him, even if its a little slap the fact that he did it means he has no respect for you, along with the not respecting your beliefs. A relationship without respect is no relationship at all its just sex and bullshit.
lots of answers for this, tell him change his ways or hes out, you know what they say, to be in love you have to be compatible. if that is a quality he losses, then i think its a no go. but then again, i know what you mean cause its happened to me b4. besides that, all i can say is dont talk about that stuff infront of him. this is all i can say. sorry?
ok for one. me and my boyfriend have only been dating for a montha nd a half. but we fight everyday. ahaha. we always make up. now him slapping you. helll no. dont put up with that girl. put him in his place.and make him scared to even think about touching you like that again!!!
and for the religious thing. bring him closer to God. tell him its really important that ya'lls relationship has God in it. and if he doesnt agree then yall cant be together. good luck girl!
Will in the end its your choice but if hes hitting you tell him to stop because hitting women is just wrong lol and if you want to just do it nice and easy say ';I dont think it will work out we can still be friends and i really have feelings for you i just need to explore a little more sorry'; i reallly really hope i helped lol
If he slapped you and he is getting in the way of your beliefs, yes break up with him.
Don't bring yourself down on account of someone else.
Just tell him exactly how you feel about the whole situation.
dont be with someone that abuses you no matter how much you think you love them. and dont be with someone that is trying to change you. break up wityh them and talk to him again. dont answer phone calls text or anytihing else good luck
GIRL!!! dont be with a man that hits u are u crazy? if you feel like ur heart tells u he isnt right for you, than there is DEFINATELY someone out there for you that wont hurt u and will help you grow with ur relationship with god. trust me. and you tell him the truth, exactly how you feel, preferrably not via text or anything. but do wat makes you comfortable and do wat will benefit YOU in the future. think for urself.
yes break up with him face to face to show that you're brave. and you can love more than once
and thats just out of order, him slapping you...seriously you could probably do better
yeah dont really have the same religious values as most people but
he slapped you!
well thats reason enough.
wait til he goes to work
then leave a note saying hes a bastard and jerk and take you stuff and go.
You can't let him hold you back from your faith, and he hit you which means he will do it again no matter what he says!
Break up with him, but do it in the greatest way ever. Tell him you're a lesbian.
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ughh god isnt real..not trying to offend u, but c;mon ur gunna let religion get in the way with your love. ur bigger than that..and since u believe in god
here is what i have to say if i weren't athiest
';Your really gunna let god get in the way of the love of your life?';
You should never tolerate a person who hits you. Simply tell him that you think its time for each of you to go your separate ways.
If breaking up with him is even an issue then it probably wont last too long anyways and you should end it sooner rather than later as it will be much harder later
Honestly tell him how you feel and if it doesn't make a difference in the relationship then you know you should break up with him.
Yes, break up with him, because us on Yahoo Answers know what's best for you. And you break up with him by completely ignoring him from now on.
what?!?!
SLAPPED YOU?!
OHHH NOOOO HE DIDNT!
you better break up with this guy.
He slapping you is a warning, a GENTLEMAN would NEVER slap a girl.
yes.
if he hits you....leave while you can.
and just tell him it's over.
you dont...if he does it again then you can decide to leave him....your religion will always be there...he mightnt be...you shoudnt give him up if you really love im...just open up.....or shoot him...x
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