Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you break up with someone who thinks you are in a relationship with them when you are not?

I have been seeing this girl socially for about a month and she seems to think we are going out with each other, but I do not want to go out with her. I need to tell her I don't want to go out with her, because I don't feel the same as she does, but I want to do it so we can still be friends. What should I say?How do you break up with someone who thinks you are in a relationship with them when you are not?
Tell her,'; (Insert name here), the way that you feel for me isn't mutual, and I think we should just both move on and find new love.';How do you break up with someone who thinks you are in a relationship with them when you are not?
Have you done anything to lead her on? The easy and slime ball way out of this is to subtly let her know you're dating other people, but that could hurt her. So only thing that can be done is the next time she makes a comment or does an action that is related to being a boyfriend and girlfriend, just tell her you don't feel the same way but that you really like her as a friend. That will still hurt her, but I don't think you can avoid hurt feelings in this scenario.
What you need to do is to go up to her and tell her that you need to talk to her. Say that you dont want a relationship whith her, tell her that you just dont feel the same way as she does, but you think she is a awesome friend and that you want a friendship, not a relationship.
Well since you still want to be friends then you should be honest with her. She may get a little upset but she will respect you for your honesty and get over it. If you didn't want to be her friend on the other hand I would have suggested that you just stop talking to her.
tell her ';i just want to clarify our relationship with you. we are friends, nothing more. if we were in a relationship i'd break up with you but we are not. i just want you to know i value your friendship but i think you think we have more than we do. do you understand where i am coming from?'; hopefully she will. if not, say it again until she does understand. good luck.
Option A: Take her to a desert . murder her and bury her body and thats the end of the story.





Option B (for non murderers): Ask her if she thinks you are going out and if she says yes... say im very sorry but we are not going out as i just want us to be good friends ... i dont want things to ruin our friendship ... or sumtink like that
Tell her that you only see her as friends and you don't want anything to ruin your friendship. Seems like she is getting mixed signals or just getting ahead of herself. If she still doesn't get the hint, maybe you should try spending a little less time with her so she doesn't think you guys are more than friends.





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EDIT: Thanks buddy! I'll follow your suggestion and see what he says. (:
tell her when no on else is around that. things are wierd now that we are going out. All of a sudden we went from friends to dating. I dont even remember saying we were going out.





But i really liked you as my friend. so i think it be more comfortable if we went back to that.
i think it will be difficult to stay friends coz shes obviously gona be hurt, just be honest with her n say im not sure about it but think u may have the wrong end of the stick, i reli like u but its more on a friends kinda level. thats straight and to the point.
Well you should tell her that you love their friendship and you will always like her as a friend.. and Tecnacly you didnt ak her out so she just have to accept that. You just have to set your boundries to just friends so she can get the picture
Don't be ridiculous .. there's no such things as breaking up if you dont have any relationship .. Just tell her .. She'll understand .. maybe she'll be hurt .. but time will pass by .. just tell it to her nicely ..
Just explain to her that you were going out socially with her just as friends nothing else. Tell her that your not bf/gf you'll never hug, kiss or anything like that.


I would back off completely!
tell her exactly what you told us. And tell her you really want to be friends. That ';really'; will make all the difference I swear.
stop asking her out, back up real slow, and stop seeing her, she don,t want to be friends,
You seem to have answered your own question. In this situation I would go with full honesty.
That you value her friendship.
the only thing you really can do is just to be honest with her and tell her how you truly feel.
Get another date?
tell her she is like a sister to you and that yu are glad you two are friends

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