When you break up with someone you really love?

How did you restrain yourself from calling and texting them at least once in a while after or how were you able to actually let them go completely after everything you had?When you break up with someone you really love?
You will never let them go completely. If you really love someone, then that someone will always be on your mind. This is life and it's never easy. You just have to keep yourself preoccupied. Try to have as much fun as you can and just contact that someone once in awhile. Soon after you'll get used to it and then it won't hurt as much or the urge won't be as strong as before. It takes time though. It's a real pain but time is the only thing that can lessen your urge to call or text or just go after that person.When you break up with someone you really love?
I've never been in love, not even puppy love haha, i'm still fifteen and i've only ever had like 2 boyfriends, who have both been idiots.





But anyway :)





I've always been the shoulder to cry on when my friends break up with their bfs, so i think im pretty experienced!





I'm probably going against what everyone else is saying, but don't try and force yourself to get over him straight away, watch a few romantic films, listen to break up songs, and cry cry cry! get it all out of your system.





Let this go on for about 2 weeks, have one final cry and then vow not to think about him anymore, all the things he bought you throw away, delete his number, burn his clothes, whatever, just completely erase him from your life :)





And then find someone better, because you will, i promise :)





I'm really sorry to hear what happened, and best of luck!!


xxxx
Are you the breaker or the breakee?


If you broke up with him, it's just going to hurt him more knowing you still care.


If he broke up with you, it's just going to make him annoyed by texting him.


Either way, less contact is better till people's wounds have time to heal. Then later you could maybe be friends.
if you really love someone, why should you break up with him/her? if you break up, do it for good. Breaking up means, taking this person out of your life. The best thing is to leave him/her alone for a long while, and see how your feelings develop...
its tough...... its not easy the more it hurts the more u were really in love with them...... delete their number from your fone keep a copy somewhere if u really want and try not to think about it but just remember .





this too will pass





there are plenty more fish in the sea