Friday, August 20, 2010

Best way to break up with someone?

Where and how would be the best way to break up with someone. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and 2 months now...but it's just not working. Need more info? Just ask. Thanks.Best way to break up with someone?
Tell them, in person unless you are king of the wimps, what you just told us and both of you get on with your lives.Best way to break up with someone?
At her place, you can leave, with a box of pizza, bring it in and take it to her, make the pizza topping into the shape 'it's just not working out' (Make sure its not hot she may just throw it in your face.)


It's good because it allows her to vent her anger in the way she likes best by eating or by hurting you, either way it'll be an inventive break up.





Or you can just go to her place and just tell her your not happy anymore, either way would work. Good luck.
Well, a lot of it depends on your current situation together, so details would help. It's a lot harder to break up if someone is living with you, or if they don't see any problem with the relationship.





If it's really not working out, and you don't see any way to reconcile it, you're going to have to be the one to take the initiative. If you can find a time that is reasonably stress-free for you both, tell her you'd like to discuss your relationship. Don't postpone it, don't let her stew over it, just sit her down and talk to her about it.





If she hasn't considered ending the relationship, then she is obviously going to be upset that you're dumping her. Depending on her friendbase and her level of maturity, she may be extremely sad, and you may very well become the villain among her (and possibly your shared) friends.





I won't lie, it's bound to get uncomfortable, but if you truly don't want it to continue, you owe it to her to be honest and straightforward, as do it as soon as possible.
Face to face - Approach her directly and let her know gracefully the differences due to which the relationship wont work. Let her know that you do not wish to waste her time where she could probably doing something better for herself





if you are afraid to confront face to face - Write/type a letter highlighting your feelings and its in 'her' best interest to break up. Email or courier it to her





Use a common friend to intervene





G. Luck!
THEIR ISN'T PERFECT WAY TO BREAK UP WITH SOMEONE . IT GOING TO HURT ANY WAYS. I SUGGEST THAT TRY TO BE VERY CALM WHEN SID IT . BUT THAT JUST ME
Just say ';welcome to Dumpsville, population: YOU';
tell them for wat purposeur breaking. and be friend with them.

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