I need good ideas on how to break up someone else's relationship?

So, a few months ago I fooled around with this girl who was a sister to my good friend's girlfriend. She was basically a rebound at the time so it didn't last long. I've kicked myself in the @$$ for the past six months for breaking it off because I've realized that I genuinely cared for her. Now she has a boyfriend who, by motion of concensus, happens to be a total douchebag. We actually went out several times with a group of friends (while her bf was out of town of course) and she just looks miserable. After a while, she'll lighten up and we'll hit it off just like we did before, laughing, flirting and all that crap. I honestly don't want any girl but her, so I need to find a way to make them break up. I've already made my presence known to her, but this guy seems like he's controlling and manipulating her. Any ideas would be much appreciated.I need good ideas on how to break up someone else's relationship?
get a life!I need good ideas on how to break up someone else's relationship?
Just wait and stay in the picture as much as possible. DON'T bad mouth him. People have to make their own mistakes. Let your buddy's girlfriend tell her you're waiting for her - for as long as it takes. If it carries on too long, let her know before you start to lose interest that you're starting to look around. They hating losing fans :-)
maybe she was miserable cos she was missing her boyfriend %26amp; was stuck with somebody like you hanging around!!
Just keep doing what your doing...when she goes out with the group make sure she knows what's up. Make her feel that she's still special and so on...though if she's really feeling this guy, she's not going to leave him until she wants to.


Just be there for her and let her know that who she's with now isn't good for her...not that your hating on her relationship but, you want her to be happy and your not seeing that...


Don't have her cheat on her man cause that just lets you know that anybody can come and sing her a song and she'll cheat. You don't want a cheater I'm sure.


Hopefully you have her number, and text, call her every now and then...make her feel good and wanted.
She is taken now. You can kick yourself all you want to, but you had your chance and you blew it.


And ideas to break someone up is a very rotten thing to ask for.


If she wanted to be with you she would break up with him on her own.


Go find someone who is not taken and then take your time and be sure before you break up with this one.





jeese...
Dude, why not call her and be honest. Let the young lady know how you feel and take it from there. If she wants to start seeing you again then it will be her choice to tell her boyfriend that it is over with. You can let her know that you will be there if she ever wants to talk. Then let it go.
If you care about her and her welfare, you won't try to break them up. Just let her know that you think the man she's with isn't good for her. But if you try and break them up, she'll resent you for it.
Hook up with her again so he'll break up with her. Or get a girl to hook up with him so she'll break up with him.
This is gonna take alot of patience. You have to make her realize how much better you would treat her. Always have a compliment for her. Let her know that you think about her. Send her random text messages to see what she's doing on the weekend.





If she's already tried to break up with him, then maybe she just needs a little confidence. What better confidence then to know there's another boy in your sights that obviously likes you and would be a much better catch?





Patience patience patience! It took my boy toy 8 months of schmoozing before he finally got me. I was in her position - unhappy and enjoying the attention of someone else. I finally grew some courage and dumped the ex and picked up the new boy - 5 months later, I still know I made the best decision.
Be sweet to her and listen to her boy troubles so she will see that you are kind and really like her and won't get some and dump her again.
It is only up to the girl you are speaking of on what she wants to do.I would never try to break anyone up,that is just so not cool of you.If she is still with him,there must be something she genuinely likes about him.Leave it alone.
In due time, she'll figure it out. She'll come back to you. I suggest you just sit back and let things happen naturally. Nothing positive ever comes out if you ';push'; things to happen, especially in relationships
The best thing to do and this really works good trust me on this.Go down to the river bank take off you pants and shirt jump in and swim 99 miles or 98 if u r 2 tired,them dive down to 10 feet and fart in the water then swim back to where you started and burn your pants then tell the couple how stupid you are and ask them if you can do it again so good luck my friend best wishes and dont eat before the swim ok bye now.
you shouldnt be breaking up other peoples relationships, if she is unhappy then she needs to do it herself, not you
tough one does she really want to be with him.....
Identify key areas of the relationship that she is unhappy about. Then back-hand compliment him in those aspects to smithereens. E.g. if he is smothering her be like ';O, no, don't be like that. He is just so into you and insecure and afraid about losing you, knowing how much you mean to him and how much his world revolves around you, that he can't stand the thought of being without you for ANY period of time.'; Effectively you are pushing her onto him, and she will begin to resist that and drift from him. YOU come off as a cool guy who is not vindictive against other people, but he comes off as a total douchebag. Powerful stuff %26gt;:-}
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You should ask her if she feels as if her boyfriend is the ';right'; one for her, and don't admit anything about how you feel until you hear her complain outright about her current boyfriend. After a while, you can tell her how you do feel as long as she brings back past memories and allows herself to open up to you again. If she admits that her and him arn't working out anymore, let her do what she feels is nessesary with you and her, and her and her current boyfriend. Confusing? a little, but at least it wouldn't make you seem like an ***.
Just be a friend, she will need you when she figures it all out. It happen to me, I married my best friend, my husband who was just a friend then, who had a crush on me, was there, even though he knew I was with the wrong guy, he waited patiently. Here we are 5 yrs later, HAPPY!
If she really likes you and wants to be with you then you won't need to cause she'll break it off herself. Just wait it out, don't go messing with their relationship. If it's meant to be it will happen.
talk to the chick mayb there is something seriously wrong with her bf...if the guy is manipulating her than kick the guys *** n take the girl...
it's up to her, if she wants what you want. She might look miserable but maybe she's not...It's not nice to break into someone's relationship.
Just be there for her. If he's a jerk, she'll figure it out. The more you try to barge in on their relationship, the more he'll act like a jerk, and that's just going to be hard on her.





But definitely be there to pick up the pieces. She'll dump him, and then you can be the great guy who understands and treats her like a queen...





Good luck--
I think all you have to do is ask here if she is happy with this guy. If she says she is happy thaen back off. If she tells you she is not then when the boyfriend is around with the girl you like then go up to the girl and kiss here and maybe the boyfriend will break up with here.
Don't break it up. It needs to break it on it's own.


You just need to be there, be her friend and wait. If it's meant to be, it will happen. She needs to know what kind of person you are by how you act.


So act the way you know you should. Be the better person, take the high road and all other silly sayings that are totally true.
I would just tell her how you feel and ask her if she has any of the same feelings for you. If she does, then she'll let you know. I definitely would not try and break them up, because then you'll look like the jerk! Who knows, after you tell her how you feel, she may break up with the other guy herself. Maybe she's only with him because you broke it off with her. Just tell her how you feel. If you two do get together, treat her right this time!!! Good luck!
In my opnion, I think you should ask her whether she is happy with her bf right now. (Probably, she'll say something negative about her bf.) And check up on her. See if her bf is a true control freak. If she doesn't like how her bf is acting now, encourage her to break up with him.





If she cares about you to the point she'll break up with her bf, you should go out with her again.
say somethings bad behind,
That is there problem, stay out of their business and relationship...how'd you like it if some did that to you and your girl??
Just wait and continue to be her friend. If it's meant to be, it will happen. You should never want bad for anyone, so don't try to break them up!





UNLESS you burned her, be patient and it should happen!
stand up to him for treating her like dirt,send her flowers cards be a secret admirer give her attention do whatever it takes just dont cross the line and get stalkerish things will work out in ur favor if its really meant to be remember u control ur destiny and if ur destined to be with her then u'll find a way.