Friday, August 20, 2010

How do i break-up with someone?

Whatis the easiest way to break-up with a guy who really really likes you without hurting him so much?How do i break-up with someone?
Honestly there is no easy way. And it's gonna hurt him no matter what. Just be blunt and truthful, and tell him you wish him well and hope he finds someone special. Making up a bunch of stuff or telling him a bunch of cliche' crap is just gonna make him MORE pissed and hurt, not less.How do i break-up with someone?
There is no easy way because if he really, really likes you then his feelings will be hurt regardless of how nicely you break up with him. Just try to be honest because it sounds like you really are concerned with his feelings. Let him know that you don't want to hurt him but that you can no longer be with him because you don't feel the same way and in the long run you won't be happy and neither will he.
I always try to say that he is too good for me and I do not deserve him. But it never works because they start saying that they are not that good after all...





I suppose the best way is to be honest. If you do not love him anymore say so; with time he will understand that if there is no love there is no reason for a relationship.
thats tough and its never easy... but its best to do it face to face but go somewhere thats secluded and private, and just talk to him nice n easy. oh and seriously, dont say that 'it not you its me' or 'i like u as a friend' crap because he will never buy it.





just be honest with him and even though he might not like it he will accept it easier because your telling him the truth so he wont be left wondering why you broke up with him..





wish you best of luck!!
You tell him the truth!!


Just tell him that you think it would be much better, if you were friends!!


Let him know, that you really don't want to hurt his feelings, and that it is not because you want someone else, but that you feel like you would rather be good friends!!


Good luck to you!! Love, Agoodgirl_msjXOXO
breaking up is never easy. it's like trying to find an easy way to kill someone. the result is the same, he'll be heart broken no matter how gentle you are, especially if he still loves you. which brings me to a question i once asked; what exactly do women want from us. he loves you but you wanna leave him....why would you leave him in the first place?
I don't wish to continue the relationship with you. I've realised I only like you as a friend, but it took me a while to figure out my feelings. I'm sorry. Please don't be mad at me. It wouldn't be fair on you if I carried on letting you think everything was ok when its not.
The best way is to be honest with him, just sit him down and tell him straight that you dont want to be with him and why you feel like this. If he asks questions dont get angry just answer them truthfully to him, he will appreciate you more for this.
State ur original truthful reason,no lies.just say it to him nicely,like ask him 2 go out for a drink n tell him abt wat u think abt him really.be nice.dont be harsh.well just try n make him think positive and make him stay happy.good luck%26lt;3
No matter how hard you try,you'll still end up hurting him.
there is no easy way





tell him you're a guy lol





although that might hurt your reputation
just let him no the truth. prepare to see him angry and hurt though

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