How do i break up with someone without totally crushing their feelings?

i am in a relationship that i dont like but the girl is very nice and i dont want to hurt her feelings too much. even if im not in love with her it would still pain me to see her cry. can anyone help me?How do i break up with someone without totally crushing their feelings?
There's really no way to break-up w/someone w/out crushing their feelings, especially if you're her first boyfriend. The first one usually hurts the worse, what's worse is if you continue to go on with this relationship in making her think everything is great. Its better to end it soon, rather than to let it drag on for a few more weeks, or even a few more months where it gets to the point she's developed much stronger feelings for you. At that point yes it would hurt her much worse, honesty is the best policy %26amp; you're just going to have to be a man %26amp; do what you have to do. Don't lead her on to think your relationship is completely wonderful, eventually she may figure out that you're just staying with her out of pity. Just be honest, its possible that the two of you can still be friends which I would suggest mentioning to her. That you'd like to continue to be friends, but if she chooses not to you're going to have to respect her decision as she will have to respect yours.How do i break up with someone without totally crushing their feelings?
every break up is never a good one. it just takes time to go away and its better to tell her straight out in a nice way than ignoring her because if you do there's gona be more drama and worst the truth is gona come out sooner or later. and that is the worst thing you can do to a girl, ';hide things from her';. if you want her to get over you, you do it quick, if not, it's gona take her even longer to forget you!
Unfortunately you wont be able to avoid hurting her feelings. But it will hurt her even more if she realizes that you aren't in love her with her and are only staying with her out of pity. That's a major blow to the ego. You need to be honest with her and realize that it's going to hurt her. She may or may not harbour a lot of resentment towards you, but better now then later. You are just going to have to be mature about this and do the right thing. How would you feel if a girl only stayed with because she felt sorry for you, even though she didn't love you anymore? Think about that.
hey, i always had this problem and i had people brake up with me. almost always someone is going to get their feelings hurt. if the person is mature and stable she will graciously except what your telling her. me on the otherhand never excepted it graciously lol. but thats the way it goes. she will move on as you will too. its life. you cant force yourself or another person to like someone. its a cruel world and you cant run away from pain all the time. just break it off nicely and dont be in contact with her if she pleads. it will prolong hers and your agony.
it depends...if you really care about her feelings that much i suppose that you will have to bear with it but if your waanting out of the relationship outweighs that then you should break uo with her but make sure that you do it in person because she is much less likely to gat hurt or angry that way
Ooh, thats a hard one. of course, unless she doens't like you its going to hurt a bit. try to tell her that you don't like the relationship and that you don't want to hurt her. don't try all that lets just stay friends thing, because it never works.





Hope this helps! : ]


XOXO Lexi
Maybe she's not feeling it either...





Just be completly honest.





Say something like this:





';You are one of the sweetest girls I've ever met, and I want to stay friends with you! I just don't think we are meant to be. I really like you, and this really isn't anyones fault. We're jsut not compatible!';
No matter what you do, you will destroy her feelings, it is something you can麓t control, and she must understand and move on..





Just tell her the truth.
dont break up with her.


wait a little bit and tell her that you feel that you are drifting from eachother.


and if you wait a little longer, you may realize that you actually still want to be with her.


just give it a little more time
BE HONEST!


Tell her the truth and exactly why your breaking up with her..


break it down to her nicely and calm.


Try to tell her..maybe the chemistry isn't right anymore.


Maybe say that you just feel better if your friends..
um well i was just broken up and the boy was very nice he said um i wish we could be friends i am not all that ready for a relationship and i still want to be friends.
Yeah, that's a problem I've had before. Sorry, there's no silver bullet. Try to do it kindly. She's probably way stronger than you think.
just tell her she is a really great girl and you just think its not working out.. keep it simple and then chances are she will ask about it later when things have calmed down.. then explain to her why cause she wont care as much anymore
if you guys r vry close together say NAME your the greatest grl iv met but things arnt going good.if she strts 2 cry hug her and say its ok abot 2 times.
just tell her IN PERSON!!!!!!!!! i stress the ';in person'; part cause its SO much more painful for a girl over the phone either by calling or texting!!!! trust me i have been there and its WAY harder!!!!! lol. good luck!
be honest with her...tell her you think she is a really nice person but the chemistry isn't there for u two and you want to be friends instead of a couple
Deal with it and move on. The quicker you are out of her life, the faster she will recover (If she even cares that much)!!!
just say: i like it better when we are friends
just don't break up with her
move to a uncharted island
shes probably 2 good for u anyway and ready 2 move on