How do you break up with someone you love?

We've been dating a few months and fell in love at beginning. He seems to be as much in love as I am but in a few months he has emptied my bank acct and totaled my car.I'm having to start all ova and I got 3 kids to take care of first and foremost. Please help!How do you break up with someone you love?
You suck it up and do it, especially if there are kids involved who are being neglected because of your relationship.How do you break up with someone you love?
wow! you can not be in love with someone like this. this is a hazardous relationship for you wonderful children. you have to put them first. be respnsible! this man is not ready for children obviously. he must not know what it is like to take care of children. girl u need to run. you can't live like this with 3 kids with the economy looking the way it does. 4 mouths is enough to feed when your bank account is empty. love is strong but can u seriously risk this all. think of ur babies. i left plenty of men for doing this. i didn't have kids but i knew that i needed someone responsible for their actions and someone that knew the value of a dollar that i worked so hard to earn. now i am married and i am stress free as far as financially. so do what ur heart says and take into consideration of ur children. good luck and god bless.
Um, Sweety, that's not love. Here is how you do it. You change the locks, lock the door, and don't open it when he complains...





This man is a sponge and you can't even see that... No man should ever ask for money from a single mother of three, not even to fill the tank with gas to come visit.





And then totals your car. Next time, the answer is ';NO, you cannot borrow my car.';
There's nothing to it but to do it! Think about your kids, they must come first for you.Remind yourself of how sick and tired you are. He is not at all in love with you. He's just in love with your money. I had this same situation and I decided that I am not going to have no man taking food from my child's mouth. Needless to say I sent him back to where he came from 5 minutes after that decision. Good luck to you!
FIRST OFF


tell him to owe u all that money back


and that he should give u your car back..


second if he loved u why would he do that


just dump him!


by the looks of it hes done nothing good for you


all hes done is ';empty ur bank account';


that right there is not right


good luck!