Is it bad to break up with someone over the internet?

I wanna break up w/ my boyfriend but I dont know how... HELPIs it bad to break up with someone over the internet?
Bad doesn't convey the shame, lameness, shallowness, awfulness, lack of class........





Meet in a public place, tell him you care for him, and don't think you're the best person for him, so it's time for both of you to date other people.





When you're done, and he has no more questions, LEAVE....alone!








Got it?











LuckIs it bad to break up with someone over the internet?
Yes, it's VERY bad to break up over the Internet. It's also bad to break up over the phone, or via text message, or by Instant Messenger. If Western Union still sent telegrams, it would be bad to break up that way, too.





Take a deep breath, garner a small amount of courage, and meet the boy face-to-face and break up with him. It's the decent way.
Well put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if he sent you a message over the net and said 'sorry but things are just not working out. I want to break up with you....'


I would say out of respect for him and you, cut him some slack and say it to his face. What the worse that could happen? He cries? Gosh. We all do! Just say yor moving on, its not him, its something you have to deal with and to be fair to both of you, you are ending the relationship, and holding off any friends type relationships with him fo now. Or that you have grown appart or you dont you guys are'nt what you used to be, etc, tell him why at least.


Then thank him for being there when you needed him. Hug him or shake hands And walk away.


That makes you a much better person:)


Thats just life
It is bad.


I mean it is worse than bad.


It is the most painful and humiliating way to be dumped.





If there is any other way for you to do it, and you choose to do it over the internet, you should be ashamed.





For even considering it, I think less of you.
be a woman and talk to him don't do it over the internet it is like the lowest thing you can do. if you have any dignity talk to him in person.
That reminds me: Jess, if you're reading this, things aren't really working out and I'm moving back to Scunthorpe. Thanks for all the good times, and good luck with the kids





TC





P.S: Can you send me my REO Speedwagon CD? I think I left it in your car
i have to agree to the other comments. the best way is personal because it would you seem weak for you are avoiding the confrontation with him. he would probably also be a bit agitated about it.
Yes; It Hurts WAY MORE. If You Want To Break Up With Someone, Do It In Person, And If You Cant See Them Soon Enough Then CALL THEM Dont Text Them. It Hurts Them If You Do But When You Turn Around And Look Back Youll Feel Like A TOTAL ***.
YES.


don't do it via text either.


do it in person - its embarrassing, but its better for the both of you.


you can explain more in words.
Would you like it if he dumped you over Facebook? Probably not.





Do it in person, like we all have to. No texts, phone calls, or facebook.
Yeah it's pretty lame.





It's as lame or more lame than breaking up over an answering machine.
thats fUcke* up... dont dump him over the internet or text..


dump him to his face....


sometimes phone iss okayy...


but its better to thier face...
DUH... do it in person.. unless he's a very angry/violent person.. then maybe you should do it remotely lol
If don't and never did care about him, then by all means.
Lame, and shallow!!
it shows your weak
yes. grow up


do it to their face
no its just fine. u cant handle it in person. dont stay with him cuz ur scared to hurt him