How to break up with someone you are not dating?

oh gosh! how do u break it off with someone you are not even dating, but they think you are. We've been meeting for lunch and talking and stuff, but it doesn't feel like dating. it's like we are just friends. And each day it feels more and more like that. Now i don't even know why i thought we could date anymore. I don't know how to break it off.





Help!How to break up with someone you are not dating?
Make comments like I really enjoy your friendship. Overtime were becoming good friends..,if he says he thought ur dating then I guess you should just be straight forward n let him know u just see him as a friend n don't really feel anything more then that! Good luck!How to break up with someone you are not dating?
in the world of facebook,myspace and sitting behind the computer and just avoided confrontation: we lost all idea on how to interact with people. How to get up in there face, say what you want and accept your consequences. If you have a lunch date with somebody everyday and cancel it. Im sure they will be upset. But oh well. You'll have to live with it, and they will get over it. But you can't avoid this situation, its just the way it is.





I really im busy now and i can't eat lunch with you any more all the time. Simple.
Just don't show up for lunch one day, and don't warn her ahead of time. Then, when she complains that you didn't show up, get really defensive and say that you are not her boyfriend and don't have to tell her everything. That way, its not really breaking up, its just stating a fact that you believe, and she will align with that to avoid embarassment.
Make it clear you are not interested ...if they can't accept that then the loser has issues. Why do you need a reason to tell someone to back away. start goin to lunch with someone else if possible maybe a g/f. only you know if there is something there...dont be afraid to hurt his feelings...look at what he's putting you thru right now...give 'im the boot girl, bigtime!
For all men everywhere i feel sorry for the dude...to be stuck in the friendzone what a poor fellow. Just tell him that you see him only as a friend be direct and straightforward you cannot pussyfoot around the situation it will only make it worse. Do it as soon as possible or else it will become worse
yeah right


this is exactly what u shud say to him





the fun thing:-


here is what u shud say


';bullshit';


everything he says just response with this word


thats pretty hilarious


yeah thats ure wish


u'd like if u turn this into fun


life is simple


life is fun


have fun
Just sit down with her and chat. Try to explain your REAL feelings towards them. Try to say it in the most nicest tone, and manner possible. And if they are known as the aggressive type, build a brick wall between you two ;-)
You can't break up with someone you're not dating...


Ask them what they think you two are, and then explain your feelings as nicely as you can. Hopefully they understand.
eother truthfully evaluate yourself and really be honest if you should be (nice) and give this guy a chance or move on cause i bet your hurting him. have a heart basically
what is it that you're breaking off?
Talk to them...