I am ending a relationship with someone I have had for 2 years. I am best friends with this person and am not sure I could go long without talking to them. I share every moment of my life with them.
Problem is - that by still talking to them its not making the breaking up any easier. It hurts just as much every day.
How can I stay close to this person but get over them emotionally? How can I be ok with letting them go on with their lives (personally) when I still love them.When you break up with someone do you always have to take a break from them?
You dont have to take a break with them your that persons best friend share how you feel about the break up if you share everything,
maybe that person can tell you how he respects that wish, making you feel better.
dont feel bad it always hurts, remember theres no cure only a scarr it will heal in time by itself.When you break up with someone do you always have to take a break from them?
Im not sure, my ex gf still wants to be friends with me but I cant hang out with her without feeling the same feelings I used to have, I had to just stop talking to her, it sucks but sometimes you cant be ';just'; friends with someone.
You may need to take a break to let you both get used to living your lives without each other romantically.
If you can't be without them maybe you need to question why you're breaking up with them?
you can't - make a clean break and move on. Accept you can't be friends - you'll onlky end up hurting both even more. 5 years time he will have moved on
start looking for someone else. this will help u overcome this issue
well look i think you need to spend some time a part you do need a break from the person...speaking from personal experience i went out with my best friend we had been friends for almost ten years and we went out for just over a year i still care about him very much and he me and we are still close and really good friends but the thing is we didn't speak for a exactly a year and it did us both good we were able to heal and move on and now iam so happy to say that we are still very close friends and i don't think we would have been if we didn't give each other the space we need, a year is what we needed it might not be as long for you though!
I hope it all works out! :)
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