Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can i break up with someone without hurting him?

I have been in italy for 2 weeks now and i met someone that completes me! My boyfriend is all the way in New york and i don't want to hurt him, i just want a mature breakup. I was thinking about messaging him on facebook but who wants to be dumped on facebook? any suggestions? I dont want to end up hurting BOTH of them.Thanks!How can i break up with someone without hurting him?
Well, this is a tough situation since you aren't around them much. Dumping him will not be easy. All you can do is let him know you have lost feelings and that you think its time to move on. Oh make it a decision. Don't lead him on or give him signs of hope (like he might have a chance to get you back). Cut it off at the head and make sure he knows your serious and that it's over. Do not keep him around just in case your new relationship doesn't work out well. That will only hurt him.How can i break up with someone without hurting him?
Messaging on facebook isn't mature. It's going to hurt, no matter what. There's no shunning the responsibility for the damage you're going to do.
It's the worst thing in the world to break up with someone, but it has to be done, with compassion and sensitivity.
You can't do this with out hurting him no matter what. Just do it over the phone.
honey if this guys in ny really likes you..than its gonna hurt him either way





over facebook....would be quite harsh


if you cant meet face to face


then atleast call him

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