How do I break up with someone I just started dating?

He asked me out today, and already I regret saying yes. I feel like a jerk, but he has already said he loves me and I barely know him. I really don't want to stay with him; how do I break up with him?How do I break up with someone I just started dating?
Show up to the date with another guy.How do I break up with someone I just started dating?
Just say that it's not working out and you don't think it feels quite right. It's okay to break up after the first two dates as long as you didn't do much of anything, (Anything more would be considered as leading a guy on.) As for the guy, he shouldn't have told you he loved you so quickly anyways. It's too fast for him to know. How do you know if he loves you for your appearance versus your character? Real love doesn't happen in an instant, infatuation does.
If he just asked u out and says he loves u then he really doesn't. Cause u cant just start loving someone. love takes time and by breaking up with him ur actually helping him and urself. Just say that u need sometime to think even if u dont end up back with him. or you can say that its too soon and u need sometime to urself still. and besides since your relationship was so short there isn't much to regret so there isn't so much pain except a little bit of guilt. And if he is not an asshole he wont be mad, instead he'll except your decision.


hope this helps





Sean
i think you should just be honest with him and let him know that you think he's moving things a little too fast. you could also tell him that you're just not looking for that kind of serious relationship right now i personally think that it is easier for people to move on if they simply know that the person they are attracted to doesn't like them in that kind of way, and then that person will have an easier time finding the right person. if you do think you might like him in the long run tell him to back off and wait until you are ready to make your move. i know that this sounds super confusing so sorry, but i hope it kind of helps!
You have to understand how guys think. Before we gain experience, we all easily fall in love with women instantly. The truth is, we obsess over them. We want to be the hardcore lover and everything and we think that will make women like us more.. Then we get dumped/rejected and we realize that it's not quite like that. I suppose you have no choice but to just straight up tell him. Make sure to tell him why, or it'll really mess him up. I recently got dumped for telling a girl I wanted commitment. Maybe she thought I just wanted sex or ether she got creeped out, but it's not a great feeling to get rejected for doing something that you think is the right thing to do.





He said it because he thought it would make YOU feel better, yet he didn't know it would have the opposite effect. Once you dump him, he'll probably never drop the L-bomb again. The earlier you drop him, the better. Just remember to tell him WHY. Don't give him any BS.
Just simply tell him that you're not ready for this, things are moving fast, and that you want to stay single. He can't argue with that. Just stick to your guns, because he'll certainly reply with, ';But I can make things better!';





You just started dating him, so don't worry too much about it: You don't owe him anything.
Tell him that you feel like you are both rushing things. Say you are sorry if he got the wrong impression, but that you are not ready for a committed relationship. Keep it short and simple. Don't get into a debate on whether you should or should not go out with him. Learn to say no; otherwise, you will spend your life allowing other people to convince you to do things you don't care to do.
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First of all if you just started going with him today, how does he love you already. Maybe you should let him know that you aren't ready for love and then he is moving to fast and that you think it would be best to be friends, and if its meant to be then it will.
Say something like, ya know..i dont think i put alot of time thinking about what i wanted to do about relationships, and im not too sure im ready for this right now. I still want to stay in touch but i think i just made the wrong choice. The future could hold something different, but as of now, i dont think im ready for this.





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good luck! tell me how it goes!
I've had to do that, just tell him you want to just be friends and nothing more, he may cry lol but if he did oh well. you should make your self happy and not worry about how he feels about it. if your not into him then your not into him, don't waist your time or his time. =) good luck!
Haha i went thought this, he asked me out before swim practice and I broke up with him after practice, I told him I didnt see us as a couple and just friends at best, And that you think you both rushed into it, dont make him feel like a loser, just get your point across.
if he already thinks he loves you tell him that you feel that you are moving too fast and dont think its going to work out. its better to break it off now than lead him on and break up later and have your relationship be based on lies.
Just tell him that he moved to fast and he scared you. You dont feel the same way and it would be best to put any relationship on hold at the present time. You will hurt his feelings either way so just do it and get it over with.
Tell him in person. It's always nicer than breaking up over a text, email, or calling him. Just tell him you guys are better as friends. Don't give him a whole speech about it. Make it short and sweet. He will understand.
Just say you want to end what you to have, its not being a jerk if you dont like him but it is if you dont and your still together.
maybe that guy is asking you for some prupose, you know guys are the same when chasing girls, becarful when stay with that guy alone.





words are like swords with two blades but you have to speak them out.
just be like i think ur moving to fast this samee thing happend to me and i called him and said i rele like u but as a friend and i wanna be ur friend and i feel its moving to fast bc he was like ilu ilu like every text
tell him that its not working and you feel better just as friends


and make it clear that you still want to be friends!!


dont wait very long to do it, becase every moment you wait you will feel worse!
The truth. You are very young. It's nice that you don't want to hurt his feelings, but seriously, just let him know it was a mistake to say yes and move on.
Tell him it's not working out, and that he's moving a bit to quickly, and it's freaking you out. Truth hurts. But it's always the best way to go about telling people things. JUST DO IT!
Well, just be a big girl and be honest with him. It may hurt his feelings, but really it is the best method. Let him know what you are feeling. Good Luck.... I have been in this sticky situation before.
tell him you weren't ready for the relationship but stay friends with the guy I mean its the least you could do amirite?
Dont stay with someone to keep them happy. Your happiness comes first. If you stay u probably be misarable and thats not a healthy relationship.
you shouldnt wait cause the longer you wait the more he will feel the breakup so just tell him tommorow he will understand its only been a day and if he breaks down crying...somethings wrong with tht guy
A one day relationship is worthy of a phone break up. Voice not text but no need for face to face.
just say u think things arent going to work and that u decided too fast and that its impossible for him to love you already like wtf
Tell him hes moving way too fast and that you are too uncomfortable about it. He will get over it.
You say something like you didn't think I through and now that you have now is not a good time and besides I just wanna get to know who I am
i would just tell him hes going too fast and reach out to other male friends you might have to make it a little apparent that you are distancing yourself from your new date.
just tell him you really like him but your not looking for a serious relationship and your happy being friends. hope this helps,


Ariella