How do you break up with someone you still love?

My bf and I have been together almost 3 years and we are both very much in love. BUT, it's just not working. There are a lot of things wrong with our relationship and I feel I have done everything I POSSIBLY could have done to save it. How do I break up with him and let go? I've tried but it is so devastating to try and say goodbye when I know he will move away and I would never see him again.How do you break up with someone you still love?
If you KNOW in your heart that it isn't going to work, you just can't waste any more time trying. You have to get out there and find ';the one.';


But be single for a while...don't rush into another relationship after being in one for 3 years...give yourself a little time off from the work that comes with having a man in your life and just have some fun!How do you break up with someone you still love?
I was in your situation not that long ago, and I decided I needed to end it with my now ex-boyfriend. It was so hard for me and I really didn't think I would have the strength to do it. I met up with him and I almost started crying. I told him that I loved him but I couldn't be in this situation any more because I really wasn't ready to deal with it. I told him I wanted to focus on school and I couldn't be in a relationship at that time. He had tears in his eyes and just walked away from me. Whenever I look back on it, I regret it sometimes. Just because I miss him and I hate that we aren't that close anymore. But, it helped me move on with my life and focus on things more important than relationships. I hope that you can break up with him with as little stress as possible. Good luck.
Have you spoken to him about why it isn't working? If not, then I think you should and maybe you could work it out together. Llike they say: 'It takes two to tango.'





But if you've already done this, the best thing to do is to just break it off with him bluntly. If you do it softly, then you're oging to chicken out. Tell him it's because you love him that you have to break up with him. You want to leave yourself good memories with him and not shattered ones.
Then you should not break up with him. Since both of you are in love, there is nothing both of you cannot overcome. I believe that both of you can overcome any obstacles so long as both of you love each other.





Please don't break up with him. It's really painful and heartbreaking. Believe in the Power of Love. You will regret it someday if you really break up with him.





So my advice is to treasure the love between the both of you and never break up, unless there is really a HUGE problem.
That is the chance you are going to have to take. I have been there before and yes it was painful , but you need to sit down and tell him the truth , tell him that things are not working out , u do not feel happy , or what ever is breaking the relationship. tell him you do not want to breakup but it is something u feel u need to do cause if you both are not happy then what is the sense on staying together. you are just wasting eachothers time if both are not going to put 100% into the relationship . maybe he will change , maybe things with get better , maybe they won't ut why sit around and waste your time and something going no where, goodluck but i would wait till after the holidays to breakup with him cause that is not a good memory for anyone to be hurt at xmas time , or u could give it one last shot and make a romantic evening for u and him on new years and maybe the two of u might reconnect , make up a album of all the good times , silly times sad tmes , and let him see it and say i don't want to give up on us as we have so many memories together but u are not making me happy anymore and i am starting to fall out of love with you . And maybe he will open up and talk , goodluck
There are a lot of things wrong with our relationship and I feel I have done everything I POSSIBLY could have done to save it. If it's not meant to be say goodbye.or





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never can say goodby
Think differently.
do it quickly and if yall both love each other but it is not working out yall still loove each other
Do it quickly, like pulling off a band-aid. It will be painful, but it must be done. Good Luck
Drop hints first, then slowly and calmly tell him
SAY GOODBYE AND LEAVE!!





or you will regret later in life