Whatever you say will hurt him.
So the best is to be completely honest.
You owe him that.How should I break up with someone when we both promised we never would?
you cant promise you wont break up; you can say 'i do; in health and sickness through this and that, i dp' and that kinda covers it but you cant promise someone you wont break up.
im guessing your a teenager whos dating someone and either has or hasnt had the dating convosation with your parents therefore they dont know about it?!
if it's too hard you need to tell him,
either come clean with your `rents or tell him you cant go on like this.
you promised to support each other through this; but going 'through' this, usually going through something there's a start and an ending, so by through do you mean at the end you'll tell your parents? and untill then you'll support each other?
just talk to him :)
Never make a promise you cannot keep. Even if it's saying that you need a break and never going back... this, I'm sure you know, is a lie. Someone may find out about it and warn your next boyfriend. Lies never work!
Patience... I've had this experience before. If you are really fond of this guy, it's worth keeping him. Then, when you feel that your parents are ready, step out there and explain. Especially if you love him.
Also, ask God... he always has sound advice. ~;O)
You can't promise something you can't deliver. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be together no matter how hard they try. If you're one of those couples, then it's time to move on. If you want to try to make it work, learn from President Bush's mistake and have an exit strategy. What are you trying to accomplish and how will you go about it? Figure out a plan and stick with it. Realize that if it doesn't work, either you make adjustments or you cut your losses.
Do it in person, expect the worst.
Breaking up with someone is never an easy thing.
Tell him how you feel, and that it's not going to work.
Tell him that you still like him as a friend.
After it is done, maybe call a few days later just to see how they are doing.
play reverse psychology. tell him you want to marry him soon and start a family. lay the pressure thick, real thick. let him break up with you. then cry and run a guilt trip like it;s all his fault. call him a bastard and not ';man enough'; because a ';real man'; doesn't fear commitment. lol
First talk to him and tell him the story and tell him that its diffcult for you. So you have to tell him we need to break up and we will pick up later.. Sorry for you both :(, and you can''t promise that you will not break up forever!
If you think you absolutely need to break up, then break it to him gently and explain the reason why. Tell him even though you promised, you just don't think it's going to work. Do this one step at a time.
Never say never, it is a very long time. Sometimes we make promises that we can not keep. Next time be careful and think about what you promising and if you can really keep it.
people get divorced after taken vows....things change...people break their word all the time. There is no law that says you have to be with someone forever. It is your life....do what makes you happy.
You can never promise you will never break up!! If you feel like you need to then you just have to do it..
There are never for sure promises in a relationship people change and grow just let him know you still care you just need to be free just sit down with him and tell him things are just not working.
it has to happen eventually and even tho it's gonna hurt the pain is only temporary.
Say we need a break and we'll pick it up later. Then just never do. It's mean but I found it's most effective.
Its ridiculous to promise never break up or to leave someone...its NOT reality. Do what must be done and keep it moving.
Straight talk. just say no more.
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