Is it possible to break up with someone without hurting them?

I have been dating a girl for about 3 months...she is a good girl but I know in my heart of hearts that we aren't right for eachother. How can I break it off without hurting her? Or is that even possible? I contemplated being mean to her leading up to the break up because then it would be easier and faster for her to get over me but i'm not sure if this is the best course of action...your thoughts?Is it possible to break up with someone without hurting them?
i think that the sooner you let her know you're not interested much anymore, the better it would be for her.


girls are known for being slightly paranoic at times. if you let the relationship 'unwind' itself, it may cause her more pain and become overwhelmed with the paranoia going: ';oh i'm probably not good enough for him'; etc.





but then again i don't know this girl. don't know whether she is emotional or not. she might feel the same way; you never know.





but finally my opinion would be to talk to her about it. she should understand you want what's best for her and you were brave enough to talk to her about it.





i hope everything goes well.good luck.





i also hope i made sense with my explenations :PIs it possible to break up with someone without hurting them?
just dont talk to her as much say you forgot to call her or go late to a date :D let the relationship unwind itself the only problem is if you go to far shell end up breaking up with you which isnt too bad but no guy, including me, wants to get dumped of course