Tuesday, August 10, 2010

What's the nicest way to break up with someone?

I have been dating someone about two weeks now. I feel guilty because this person seems very interested in me, but I am finding more and more that I do not enjoy spending time with this person at ALL, and I can't let this continue. I don't want to be hurtful, how can I delicately break it off?What's the nicest way to break up with someone?
Tell them you think they're so wonderful and they deserve someone better than you and you don't think you can give them what they want or be what they need you to be so they'd better look for someone else who'd truly deserve them.





This is so tooth-achingly-sweet, it works!What's the nicest way to break up with someone?
Just be honest and get it over with. Chances are you are over rating your own importance.
I have to say that I really don't know. I used a hammer once but then you need a bone saw and some chains and weights and a boat and....it just doesn't end.
Appeal to their feelings, but tell them your HONEST feelings in the nicest, diplomatic way possible. There is NO painless breakup, however, you can minimize the damage by letting them know YOU understand THEIR feelings; and ask they understand and respect your feelings.





Tell them it'd be sooooo easy for you to pretend all is warm, fuzzy and beautiful between you two--but given how you feel, it'd be TOTALLY WRONG to carry on such an act.
be straightforward and fairly honest. and do it now before any more time goes by.
Tell him you are finding out yourself that you just don't want to pair off and that you would rather prefer being in a group setting.





Or, you feel just too young to be getting serious. It gets in the way of education and going to activities and games.


Be careful he is not a controller or thinks he owns you. Then make sure you don't get in this stupid situation again.
It's only been two weeks, but I can understand how one might think that it might seem sad, but as mentioned before youy need to tell them quickly and let that person know that you don't feel the same way as too many times I have heard people keep asking why, and wanting to know what they did wrong. Let them know now and best of luck.
THERE IS NO NICE WAY ALL THE WAYS HURT THE SAME
theres no such thing as the nicest way to break up. even if you got the nicest way you'd still hurt that person. a direct one is better. quickly end it and tell that person we will still be friends, so don't worry too much.
Give her a New Lexus, and a $10,000.00 cashier's Check. Tell her bye. She will get over you.
There is no nice way to break up, but doing it sooner and not later helps; like right now! Ofcourse tell the truth, as you said ';Things are not working out and you don't want to see him/her anymore.'; Can you still be friends? Best answer no, not at least in the near future, so he/she doesn't have a reason to stick around. Keep it short, to the point and have a good reason to walk away immediately. Example, a friend is waiting for you to go out... now!
well we gotta face our feeling honestly. you may just tell him how you feel abt this relationship and say u two can be very good friends...
Do it in person just tell them you dont think you are ready for this.
KISS ! AND SAY BYE BYE ! GO WITH GOD !
Let them know that they mean more to you as a friend than as a special someone. Be completely honest, tell them you care, but they are just not what you are looking for. Then ask them at the end, what it is they would like to do as far as the friendship relationship goes. If you don't care to be friends with them at all, well, you could just stop talking them and if they keep inquiring, have a friend say you are seeing someone else. This is hurtful, but it is quick and to the point. Honestly the best way is to say everything that is on your mind and leave no room for skeptics. Say everything like that is the last time you'll ever see them again
Don't get hooked up with anybody
Just tell them straight why you dont want to be with them anymore. She/he might cry for awhile but at least they know why and they wont go into depression or some crazy **** thinking its their fault
run away for ever. at least you won't see how he reacts.
you say something like '; if you don't know what you have done wrong well, we're obviously not on the same level'; or '; i cant believe you did this to me and what WE had, it's over.'; so its not really lying and your not telling the hurt full truth either..

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