How do I break up with someone who is almost perfect?

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year or so and we've had no fights or anything. He is just so kind and nice. But...I know this is shallow, he won't put out. Now that's not the only reason, I'm just not that into him anymore. I've been trying to get him to break up with me, but it's not working. I've never broken up with someone (normally they break up with me XD) How do I do it then? How do I say, it's over?How do I break up with someone who is almost perfect?
Doesn't put out? He must be gay or your not very attractive. My advice just let me do the breaking up for you. I'm really good at it I've broken up relationships like 17 timesHow do I break up with someone who is almost perfect?
Babe, it's not shallow.


I know exactly how you feel.


Personally I feel, if you haven't fought that there is something you guys aren't telling each other. You just have to either try harder to get him to break up with you. Or you just have to sit him down and tell him the truth. Tell him there is just nothing there for you anymore and that he's a great guy, and maybe (if its true) that you would love to be friends in the future. He may be heart broken, and it's okay such as life, but he WILL come around eventually.





Hope I could help!
bahaha @ 'he wont put out'. lmao.


but seriously though, just tell him thats hes an awesome person. but feelings change all the time and youre just not into the relationship anymore. if you wanna be more straight up than that, just say youre not that into him anymore. but you still wanna stay cool. just say its over, theres no point in trying to get him to break up with you ahaha just do it yourself.
..you tell him directly and to his face, and you also need to do it in a nonconfrontational type manner of course.


Surely he ain't gonna like anything about breaking up with you reasonably....so go easily with him...k?


He does need to be let down gently...not cruely alternatively...agreed?


...doesn't put out?.....maybe you need to talk about the sexual stuff 1st hun......or maybe not...your call.


Perfect huh?
you should be considerate of his feelings, don't just go and break his heart, you should talk to him, and he might change for you,


good relations ships are hard to came across, so you could be wanting to break up now, and end up regretting it later. good luck.
Wow. You are shallow. Obviously your goal isn't to find a life-partner you can grow old with, just someone to have fun with and screw around with.





You should tell him that he deserves better than you.
I think you will just tell him the truth. Just tell him that you are not into him anymore and that maybe he is the perfect guy but not perfect for you. Just do it soon, the sooner the better.
Tell him you want more from a relationship than is going on in yours, tell him you need to move on and that he will always be special to you.
just say something like you had a lot of fun with him this past year but youre ready to move on. you want more out of a relationship than he can give. just dont make up something make sure you stick to the truth.
hm.. while lots of girls out there looking for a nice guy for a committed relationship, you want to end it? Whatever you do just make sure you won't regret it when he is taken by someone else.
just tell him you do not have the feelings you used and you want to move on. it is that easy. good luck
Tell him the relationship you have with him is not one you really want right now. If he asks what's missing be honest buy try not to hurt his feelings.
Just say I'm sorry but its over. If he asks if you can be friends either tell him yes or that you'll think about it and then get back to him and tell him yes or no.
im truly sorry, not really im sorry but no that is really shallow and i know this isnt the answer u wanted but i hope he finds someone who cares
WTF why wont he put out? is he g@y
idk
I'll put out *cough*





But besides him not putting out, why don't you like him?